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Girlfriend Bleeding

  • 16-01-2010 8:58pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    My girlfriend started bleeding while i was fingering her during foreplay, we've had sex before so its not from her hymen breaking. Can anyone give me some advice as to what may cause this? She's on the pill 3 months now, would that have anything to do with it? Or could it be an STI?


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  • #2
    Victor
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    It could be anything, from her period to a minor injury (from a finger nail) and up. If its anything more than an incidental amount of blood, it should be checked out by a doctor.

    If you are sexually active, there is no harm in getting an STI check anyway.


  • #3
    Nevyn
    Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    Is she due her period? There could be range of reasons form from you snagging her with a fingernail to a more serious medical issue, if she is concerned she should go talk to her dr.


  • #4
    LegacyUser
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    She had her period last week. Its never happened before when we've had sex and she hasn't bled afterwards but once before when I was fingering her as well, my nails are short but there's a small point on them could it be because I am being too rough?


  • #5
    shellyboo
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    How long ago did she finish her period? Tbh, if you were fingering her roughly, there could have been a little blood left over and that could have been what happened. Or as others have said, a small snag with your nail.

    None of us can tell you if you're being too rough - you need to ask your gf that :) If she's worried about the bleeding, she should take a trip to the doctor for peace of mind.


  • #6
    LegacyUser
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    This happened to me and it turned out I was suffering from cervical erosion which is caused by too many hormones in the body. In my case I was running packs of my pill together. But it could be any number of things though, she should definately go to her doc just to be sure.


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  • #7
    dylano_k
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 809 ✭✭✭dylano_k


    Its more than likely your fingernails. Its happened before with a girl i was with a couple of times. Assuming its not a heavy bleed she should be fine...and maybe go easy next time


  • #8
    magneticimpulse
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    this happened to me before when a guy was too rough fingering me! i was so motified as it was in the middle of a nightclub and wasnt expecting a period. next time be gentle!! its never happened during sex (although ive gotten other things like cystetis, blood in my urine, and extreme burning pain from having rough sex)

    advice be gentle. you dont have to go rough to have good fingering, in fact the more gentle it is, the easier for orgasim


  • #9
    LegacyUser
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    This is one of the symptoms of chlamydia - the only symptom that i had from a list....bleeding for no reason between periods, u should both get checked out as a caution as i waited about 5 months before doing it, blaming myself for messing up my pill - could lead to problems later with infertility etc, not to worry you or anything i was fine but just to be sure...... good luck :)


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