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To call or not to call

  • 04-01-2010 10:05am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi, This isn't really a big problem I would just like some opinions, I recently (few months ago ) got out of a ltr, it was really rough and I have only started getting over it in the last few weeks. I got advice here about it at the time which helped alot so said I'd throw this up.

    Anyway went a bit over xmas and met a few girls, nothing major. Except one girl I ended up with. Had known here years as an aquantance, always had a little thing for her but nothing ever materialised. Anyway over xmas ended up spending the night together, no bumpety just kisses and cuddles. So I was out again a cpl nights later and got fairly trashed. looked at the sent messages the next morning and cringed as I had texted her telling her I liked her a bit...Thought to myself that I'd blown that one, but wasn't too upset. But that evening I got a text back saying she was asleep when she got the text but it was lovely to hear from you. Couple of back and forths and to cut a long story short a couple days later I suggested we meet for a drink or something (by text) she said she was away for a couple days over new year but to let her know when i was free and she'd meet me then.

    All great you say, and as I said this isn't really a problem but as I have been out of the game a while Id like to know what i should do here now. It has been over a week since we hooked up and a good few days since last contact. Im trying to decide whether I should bite the bullet and make a call or should I just text again re. meeting up. She does seem keen but I don't want to come on to strong and at the same time don't want to seem overly blase....any advice on this kind of silly question would be appreciated.


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  • #2
    samsung22
    Closed Accounts Posts: 46 ✭samsung22


    Call her! Believe me, she'll appreciate that you made the effort and it shows you had the balls to go for it.
    Life's too short to be wondering so if you want her, go get her man.
    Best of luck.


  • #3
    andreac
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,000 ✭✭✭andreac


    Deffo call her, she replied after you text her saying was nice to hear from you so shes deffo interested.

    If it was me id be chuffed that you rang.:)


  • #4
    Le King
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,092 ✭✭✭Le King


    Does this girl know you've just come out of a LTR?


  • #5
    cafecolour
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,328 ✭✭✭cafecolour


    Yeah, def call, don't text. I'd do it this evening, don't leave it past today.

    You've waited a few days and she said to contact her, so you're not coming on too strong. Coming on too strong essentially just boils down to attempting to contact them far more (and more often) than they are reciprocating. Ie I once had a friend who gave a guy her number to a guy in a bar and said 'contact me sometime'. She got 25 texts in the next three days - she sent about 3 back. That's coming on too strong ;)


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