do i end it?

pinkcocktail

I've been seeing this fella since like May, well its more like just sleeping with this fella We met online like a year and half ago. Im 21 and he's 32!

Its always been like meeting up for like just sex which i was happy about cause thats all i wanted. Problem... I'm really starting to get feelings for him. I dont think he feels the same though. I think he doesnt like me its just we dont actually talk all that much. part of me is content with just carrying on what we have but the other just thinks im setting myself up to get hurt.

Should i just just end it?
If i do, do i tell him the reason?

Advice please :eek:

jenga-jen

OP well if you're thinking of ending it anyway, is there any point in telling him how you're feeling?

Worst case scenario he tells you he doesn't feel that way in which case you can tell him you suspected as much and feel it'd only be fair to yourself to end it.

Or he could be in the same situation but doesn't know how to change the rules of the current setup?

But if you do find out he's not interested, then for your own sake I'd advise ending it. You could end up missing out on something special because of the setup.

grizzly

It sounds like this relationship is bad for your self confidence. Tell him you want more and based on his reaction, take it from there. You won't know what he really thinks until you discuss it with him.