Delayed ejaculation, help!

LegacyUser

Going un-regged for this!

Right, I've had this problem forever. I'd always assumed it was because I was never extremely until the girls I was with (not that I've been with many!) - but for the past few days I've been sleeping with a girl I really adore and love being with.

The problem is, I just can't cum. We were at it for an hour like the energizer bunny - but I couldn't cum. Most guys with premature ejaculation would love to be in my shoes, but to be honest - I'd rather be premature than being not able to cum with a girl at all.

So after a bit of reading, Delayed ejaculation appears to be what I have. Does anyone else have this? It's really so frustrating. It's not like I can't cum, or it's not like I'm not aroused.

I just want to hit my head off a wall. Has anybody got around this? I need to really get it sorted. I just end up getting so tired after sex, where the girl can cum multiple times and I can't even once

P.C.

There are doctors who specialse in sexual 'illnesses'.
I don't know who they are, or how to find them, but they are out there somewhere.
Your 'problem' can be fixed.

Maybe asking the question in the mens health forum would get you more replies.

OldGoat

Sounds like you might be stressing yourself into having problems. Relax a bit more, don't sweat it.

sam34

op have a chat with your gp

some medicationsa cause this, and some physical illnesses, so you need a medical check up

nothing to be embarrassed about, your gp will have heard it 1000 times before

Sean!

Can you finish when you masturbate ?

Shane732

Totally agree with Oldgoat, you probably have yourself in a state thinking about when it's going to happen.

I bet the girl was thinking for a while that she'd across a complete stag, which of course you may be!

Do you fake it?!! (It had to be said!)

Paulegend

actually had the problem myself awhile back. dont know what it was that caused it. sometimes it just happens. its prob a stress thing. specially if your thinking about it. try to relax more and you should be ok. i wouldnt worry too much about it. its frustrating i know but once you start relaxing it will come to you:D

trout

OP ... you can see you are not alone. Your best bet is to visit your GP ... don't be embarrassed, your GP will be best placed to help.

Good luck.

Herbal Deity

Since he says "it's not as if I can't cum", it's likely just a simple (albeit frustrating) case of being too used to masturbating and cumming in one way.

So far, there's nothing in this thread to indicate to me that this is a medical problem.

OP, when masturbating does it take you ages to cum? If so, then maybe it is a medical problem, if not, then this may sound silly, but stop masturbating for a while. (Assuming you masturbate regularly - if you don't, then do the opposite, masturbate more, get to know how your body responds to sexual stimulation)

Being so quick to recommend he go to his GP about it is a little premature.

And yes, that was intended.

trout

Hopefully this isn't a medical issue.

Advising the OP to visit his Doctor is sound advice; a professional is best placed to gather facts and form an opinion based on an examination, as opposed to speculation from anonymous Internetters.

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