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AAArgh!!

  • 01-01-2010 12:00pm
    #1
    Aka Ishur
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 740 ✭✭✭


    Ok this might not be the right place, and you don't have to reply. I just have to say something where noone knows me!! :D

    So i met this girl last night, she's super hot, mad into me, puts star wars references in her sentences!! (how frickin awesome is that!!) and when we dance we make other couples jealous theres so much heat.

    However she has a little girl and a on/off father for the girl.

    Am I wierd that i kinda like how complicated this could get????:rolleyes:


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  • #2
    Jules
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,756 ✭✭✭Jules


    no its not the right place for it that would be RI.


  • #3
    Aka Ishur
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 740 ✭✭✭Aka Ishur


    Ah of course! If a mod could move it cool!


  • #4
    star-pants
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,429 ✭✭✭✭star-pants


    How do you mean you like how complicated it could get?


  • #5
    Miss Fluff
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    Aka Ishur wrote: »
    However she has a little girl and a on/off father for the girl.

    I presume you mean an on/off relationship with the kids father? Is it on or off at the moment, i.e. is she already spoken for?


  • #6
    CDfm
    Closed Accounts Posts: 20,649 ✭✭✭✭CDfm


    The issues are these.

    If she has a relationship that is not over then she is not single as such and that happens - she might just be looking for a fling. No harm in that says you.But she might be cautious about getting into a relationship and telling you about the ex could be her way of keeping distance.

    They will- her and her ex (if they are normal) have a joint interest in the welfare of their kid so will need to get along. So if you intend a relationship with this woman along with it comes a child and a cordial relationship with her ex who is the childs father.

    So you need to still think she is hot under these circumstances or when she needs to rush back to collect the child from the ex or cant go out because she cant get a babysitter.

    So its not just that she looked hot after a few drinks on NYE and your mates are jealous and there is a lot more to it than that.

    How you deal with the situation of her, her ex and child is different and needs more thought.

    If you are looking for some arm candy you wont get it here - but if you genuinely like the girl and can deal with all the rest - good luck to you both.


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  • #7
    magneticimpulse
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,952 ✭✭✭magneticimpulse


    this relationship doesnt sound great the way you describe it....she mad into you....super hot...etc. yeah its nice to say these things, but sounds a bit immature, you sound quite young by the few sentences you wrote and if this is the case...maybe taking on the responsibility to be a co father is very demanding role? at the end of the day you have to be a father like figure to this child, are you prepared for that?


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