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Beating Myself Up Post Date

  • 31-12-2009 3:17am
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    LegacyUser
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    Some advice would be great here.

    My ex left me at the beginning of this year and it really messed up my self confidence.
    However I met a lovely guy 2 weeks ago and was delighted to have a date with him last nite but I keep over analysing everything I said and did all night. I do really like this guy but my ex has obviously messed me up so much and for the first time in my life my self confidence is so low.

    When on the date I'm pretty sure we had a good laugh and the flow of conversation was great but he said something a tiny bit offensive and I homed in on it a bit and pointed out that it was a little offensive. We had a good laugh about it too but I'm thinking I should have kept my mouth shut and I'm thinking now will he even contact me again (eventhough he contacted twice just to organise the date). I've never been like this before so its quite annoying. I think I probably forget how to 'behave' on a date too now. His body language was good though as I think he was moving close to me a decent bit during the nite, before and after the offensive thing.

    I've always been sure of myself and confident so this is coming as a bit of a shock to me. Should I have said nothing or am I over thinking this? I was even thinking of texting him to say 'hope i wasn't hard on you' or something but i don't like chasing and don't want to seem needy or pathetic.


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