big fight last night

LegacyUser

Had a few back to mine last night

3 cousins are/were good friends of mine my best buddy and a few other who werent involved.

5am i went out to the front door and the 3 were on my best buddy really beating him up so i started breaking it up and got a few digs off one of the guys that was fine i gave him a nice few back, 20 mins later his bro gave me a few cause i hit his brother even tho i know him about 5 years and got on really well with hobbies and that. then the cousin comes after me but couldnt get me cause i kept going around a car so as that happens the neighbour and his wife comes out and start shouting whats going on... with that one of the brothers runs at him telling him to get back in the ****iin house, so naturally they ran back in but when the closed the door he gave the door a boot.

that was fine the worst was a chipped too of my buddy but the problem is the neighbour knocked over a while ago and wanted to know his name of the guy who kicked his door and where hes from because hes going get him with a hammer (he showed me the hammer)

i told him vaguley where he lives but changed his second name.... wtf do i do?

neuro-praxis

Are you absolutely sure your neighbour is going to use that particular hammer? He could use any hammer in a fit of rage...perhaps even a mallet.

CDfm

The first would be to apologise to your neighbour and make good any damage and the next would be to stop having parties.

I imagine you feel remorseful but having a fight at 5 in the morning in a residential area isnt normal. You could do with better friends.

Your neighbour was trying to scare you and maybe thats the only language you can understand.

I know it Xmas but sober up. Clean up the house and yourself and uninvite your friends from your home and you will be a lot happier.

PK2008

Stop hanging around with scumbags??

hungryhippo

Get your scumbag mate to go around to the neighbour and apologise sincerely. Plead drunkeness and stupidity. You have to live there beside this neighbour, your mate doesn't. Bottle of something nice wouldn't go astray.
He was bang out of order. Bang. If he doesn't agree, do it yourself and stop hanging around with him.

Bad Seed

Your neighbour sounds a bit mad. Don't talk to him.

CDfm

Bad Seed wrote: »

Your neighbour sounds a bit mad. Don't talk to him.

In fairness the neighbour has every right to be angry and feel violated. The fight was probably the end of the celebrations - if I was the neighbour I would be livid.

Bad Seed

A hammer.

Toots

I'd be calling around to your neighbour to apologise TBH. Did your friend damage the neighbours door? If so, I'd be getting him to pay to repair the damage caused. It might not be a good idea to get the friend to call in to apologise in case the neighbour comes good on his hammer threat. I think you're lucky he didn't call the Gardai, if some drunken yob started shouting at me and kicking my front door, I'd be straight on the phone.

CDfm

Bad Seed wrote: »

A hammer.

I am sure you will agree that this indicates the said neighbour was a tad irate at his restfull slumpers being disturbed and one should be gratefull that one wasnt introduced to Mr Hammer.

Victor

neuro-praxis wrote: »

Are you absolutely sure your neighbour is going to use that particular hammer? He could use any hammer in a fit of rage...perhaps even a mallet.

No need for sarcasm.

hungryhippo wrote: »

Bottle of something nice wouldn't go astray.

Alcohol is probably one of the source of the problems. Something sure, but perhaps not alcohol.

Bad Seed wrote: »

A hammer.

Meaningful answers only please.

Bad Seed

Well i'm glad you're here to judge what is meaningful and what is not. Thank you. Anyway, what I felt was insinuated by my last post is, if you hit someone with a hammer you are insane.

Nevyn

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Thaedydal

LegacyUser

Do you realise that this incident has most probably ruined their Xmas? If someone kicked in my door I would not get over it for a month. Your thug friend needs to act like the man he thinks he is by going round, facing the neighbour and paying for what damage he has done.

As for you, a bunch of flowers and bottle of whiskey at minimum to say sorry. As they say, if you lie down with dogs, you get up with fleas

LegacyUser

o.p I find it strange that you seem to think this is normal behaviour. If I was your neighbour I would have gotten the guards involved by now.

The best thing you can do is go round to your neighbour apologise and offer to pay the damages. Grow up and stop hanging around with people who think fighting, threatening people and damaging property is normal, clever or intelligent, because it isn't.

RossFixxxed

Imagine being the neighbour having a bunch of dirty little scummers beating the head off each other at 5 a.m. then kicking lumps out of your door? Come on you owe him an apology at the very least, and your mate needs to pay for the damages.

As a poster above said, you think this is normal behaviour? It is not on at all and it makes you and everyone involved look like a total nightmare to live near. That's being polite.

This kind of acting is going to get you very badly hurt or worse. Grow up.

Elbi

RossFixxxed wrote: »

Imagine being the neighbour having a bunch of dirty little scummers beating the head off each other at 5 a.m. then kicking lumps out of your door?
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ya if you were that neighbour you'd prob just call the guards....

what kinda of crazy ba$tard goes around hitting people with hammers.. he was probably just tryin to scare yee, just tell him you are sorry and it wont happen again.

RossFixxxed

I am not condoning it, but maybe he has to deal with this crap a lot from them? Maybe he has a family he's scared for. All logic goes out the window at that time of night, bad sleep, frightened etc. A bunch of scummers banging the heads off each other in the garden. Maybe he got pushed too far. I know myself I'd hit the roof. I remember being in a sketch situation and staying calm until the guy pointed at my OH and I put the boot down in the car and left it up to him to jump out of the way. I'm not proud, and I'm not a fighter but when my OH or family are involved this cold scary feeling comes down, and rationale goes out the window.

Nobody should have to live near people like that. Everyone should be safe and secure in their home. If these knackers want to fight like that, go somewhere away from people and knock each other senseless if want.

CDfm

+1 Ross - the OP has weird values and thinks its ok to kick a guys door in, have a streetfight outside his house but is offended when the neighbour gets p***** off about it.

The neighbour should have called the guards and the OP and his buddies should be prosecuted.

In fairness the neighbour most likely had the hammer out to secure the door.

LegacyUser

Leave the house for starts before you're handed your eviction notice. How dare your cousin/friend/bff whatever tell this man to get in to his f****n house and kick his door. He should have rang the guards.The fact you're on here talking like this is normal and not ashamed of your life grovelling at your neigbours door doesn't say much about your character. To be honest if you came knocking at my door apologising after doing something like that on me I wouldn't really want to hear it anyways. All you can do is sit and wait. I have a feeling this isn't an isolated incident.