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This is gonna sound stupid but......

  • 26-12-2009 7:50pm
    #1
    silverwatch
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 92 ✭✭


    Ok I've debated about posting anything on this for a while but here goes....

    Was with this fella this time last year for only two months......short time I know but I did really like him.

    Anyway, things were going good until Valentines, literally he was meant to meet me as per usual that day & text out of the blue sayin it was over(said he just couldn't see us getting on eventhough we never had one tiff). Clearly I was upset etc but kinda thought eventually I would get over him....

    It's nearly a year on now and no matter who else I meet I just can't get him out of my head as in sometimes I still cry about how it ended so abruptly. It sounds psychotic and childish and you'd imagine at 24 I'd have the cop on to just get over it but it's still wreckin my head.... I know his friends etc so know he didn't start seein anyone else and is still single which makes it all the more head wreckin... He text to say happy xmas etc yesterday so hence it's on my mind again.

    Know there have been loads of threads on how to 'just get over someone' but any help would be welcome......

    Sry even re reading this it sounds childish...:(


Comments

  • #2
    Stu77
    Closed Accounts Posts: 50 ✭✭Stu77


    Hey, don't be too hard on yourself. Everyone deals with breakups differently. You really liked the guy and you still think about him, nothing wrong or psychotic about that. Its a normal emotional reaction to someone you cared about. But to be honest, he sounds like a bit of a tool. Just texting you and abruptly ending the relationship without giving you a proper explanation is very childish stuff. He shouldn't have texted you over the christmas after his behaviour but then he probably wanted his ego massaged. Hes not worth wasting any energy on.

    The deeper issue here might be your lack of self esteem. You deserve better. Look after yourself both physically and mentally and have plenty of hobbies to keep you busy and the next time he sees you and sees how great you look, he'll be kicking himself. Plenty of better men out there with "MEN" being the operative word. Take care.


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