It just hurts

LegacyUser

Ok,

im 3mts pregnant (approx) and i have started to show so people are been told which im enjoying,

When i found out i told my parents and was basically kicked outta he house, which was horrific anyways after some talks they asked me home, im 22 so i guess it was a shock,

However, yesterday i wasn't in a good mood, i cant explain why i would be prone to major mood swings thankfully i am on meds for it, but pregnancy hormones been pregnancy hormones some days are low, and my boyfriend told me his ex girlfriend was txting him and he told her, andways he went on for half an hour about how she didnt believe him and how he was like ha in your face etc, and he just wouldnt shut up about her, and it just hurt, and then 'joking' he said oh if you dont snap outta your mood i'll give your presents to ******* the ex, pre-pregnancy he would have gotten the ear bashing to end all ear bashings, but knowing that the hormones can get the better i just went for a walk,

Now, to explain why i feel this way about the ex, its nothing to do with been jealous, the girl tormented him for 2 yrs, he foolishly allowed it and then copped on, now what drives me up the wall,i have exes like this, but there not in my life for that particualr reason, and no i wont be sharing MY great news with them, they dont deserve an ounce of energy from me, they dont deserve it, and the fact he used this situation to get one up on her, god my blood is boiling even thinking of it,

i dont want to have a screaming match or a you cant do this, i just want to tell him how much it hurts and how much i wish he wouldnt speak to her she doesnt deserve to be giving him a 'your to young lecture'!

Sorry for the long post and thanks for reading, i just dont want to let this simmer for too long!

Happy christmas

miec

i just want to tell him how much it hurts and how much i wish he wouldnt speak to her

Hi Op

I would tell him the above, plainly and simply. His behaviour was hurtful and disrespectful towards you and you are right to feel hurt.

How Strange

+1

If the two of you are bringing a baby into the world and are going to become a family then you have to start communicating how you feel.

He was insensitive and he hurt your feelings so you should tell him exactly that.