Help needed

LegacyUser

Theres this girl that I've been friends with for about 3 years, and have liked her during most of that period. I recently found out she also liked me last year, but, not knowing this , I went out with one of her best friends for a few months, thus missing the boat with her.
Since breaking up with her best friend about 6 months ago, me and her have been growing moderately close, and about a month ago I told her how I felt, and she let me down gently[basically told in nice terms, that im in the friend zone]. However, a few of her friends have told me she still likes me, but the problem is
a: she doesnt want a relationship right now
b: she feels it would be weird , considering I went out with one of her best friends[which it might be, had that best friend not moved onto one of my mates a week after we broke up because 'she didnt want to be in a relationship'] .

So I've been conducting a plan- every weekend , we usually end up in the same venue[same crowd etc] ie. pub, nightclub etc, have fun together. I've been building up the flirting etc, and plan to make my move on new years eve, where we will be both nice and drunk.

However, I am now heading out tonight to an gig, and she rang me 4 times today[all missed calls,except the last call when she got through] to ask was I going tonight, and when I said yes , she said hmm then she might go[which I took as a good sign;its like she asked me because not many were going; basically our whole friend group is going].

So should I make a move tonight? Or continue flirting and make a move new years night?

shellyboo

Do whatever feels right... it's a kiss, not a military manouvre. If it feels right tonight, go for it.

cafecolour

If it seems on, def go for it tonight. NYE seems like a bad time to wait for TBH - it'll be chaos, and you both will have so many other mates around, it might give you cold feet.