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  • 21-12-2009 3:07pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi, just looking for a bit of advice here. There is a girl that i used to work with that i met out at the weekend. Well we ended up kissing and i gave her my number and we've been texting all weekend. This isnt the first time we've been together (never slept together though), there were a few times last year but I hadnt seen here since last xmas.

    Well I've been thinking of asking her out for a drink some time this week? My problem is half of me wants to ask her out and half of me thinks it might be a mistake. As i said, I used to work with her and so I kinda know her a little already. She's about 2 or 3 years younger than me and the main thing that is putting a doubt in my head is that when i worked with her i used to think she was pretty immature. Also i'm not 100% sure if I fancy her enough to be asking her out?

    So I was just wondering what people thought? should i ask her out and see how things go or should i just forget about it as i'm already having doubts???


Comments

  • #2
    How Soon Is Now
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,136 ✭✭✭✭How Soon Is Now


    Talk to her more first see has she changed if she is still as immature as you once taught she was.

    If you dont think you fancy her dont ask her out it aint fair on her if she thinks your into her then you drop her.


  • #3
    Danniboo
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,416 ✭✭✭Danniboo


    Only you can determine if you fancy this girl, the fact you've kissed a few times and gave her your number obviously you must think something of her :rolleyes:. One date won't kill anybody, don't string her along though if you dont get on, just let her know.


  • #4
    Miss Fluff
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    Sounds to be like there must be a little spark there if you've ended up snogging a few times. Most def ask her out. See where it leads and if you're not keen, don't string her along. You should def ask her out, why ever not?:)


  • #5
    Scráib
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 593 ✭✭✭Scráib


    Ask her out, see how you get on. Worst case scenario is it doesn't work out and you call it quits. Maybe you're thinking too much about this in your head and seeing complications where there aren't any?


  • #6
    extrinzic
    Closed Accounts Posts: 141 ✭✭extrinzic


    To be honest, you don't sound like you fancy her, do you? Leave her alone if you don't.


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