When to move in together

LegacyUser · 13-12-2009 11:06pm #1

I have recently stated to go out with a girl and it is the best relationship I have ever had, we are both experienced people who have been through a lot and I do sincerely belive that this is the future for us both, and my gf feels the same way

the issue I would like opinion on is when to move in together? we are both previously married and in our 30's and have known each other and been dating for about 5 months. It seems that people date for ages now before they take this step. I don't see the point of messing about for a year or two before discovering if we are good together 24/7

any help much welcomed.

thanks

Nettie · 13-12-2009 11:30pm

I'd say go for it. You seem to both have been through a lot. And if you feel this strong, you might have a good future together (:

Darthhoob · 13-12-2009 11:33pm

if it feels the right time for you both DO IT! there is no right or wrong time. my OH moved in after 2 months of dating and still going strong 7 years later

my friend didn;t move in with her hubby till day they were married and found out how annoying he is! lol! no doubt she is annoying to him too. they are still a strong couple who love eachother but they drive eachother mad sometimes

SheRa · 14-12-2009 12:24am

When it feels right for both of you. I've learnt that there is no set time.

5 months could be perfect or it could be a year and a half. Go with your gut.

SarahMc · 14-12-2009 10:52pm

Do either of you have children? If not, I agree with previous posters. However if you have, much more caution and forethought is required.

extrinzic · 14-12-2009 11:33pm

Whats the hurry. You are only going out five months, take your time. I think that moving in together is not a decission to be taken lightly, or quickly.

When to move in together

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