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Feel like I can't go on

  • 13-12-2009 10:22pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    This is probably more of a rant than anything, but I really just need to get this all off my chest. I just feel like everythings been fallin apart lately, a few months ago, my long term boyfriend dumped me giving the reason he didn't want to be in a relationship. Within a month he was going out with a girl he'd known while we were together. I didn't really care, I felt I was never really that well suited to him anyway, had no problem with him being happy etc.
    Then I found out that my first boyfriend, probably the only guy I've ever really loved, was gay. Once again, didnt really care, found it funny if anything.
    Then I met a guy through a dating website who I felt I really hit it off with, we texted for a few days, and I was really happy as I though we might work. Then out of the blue one day he just never text me back. Again, didn't care, we'd only been texting a few days.

    And well, tonight it all hit me and I've just suddenly started to care about all those things.
    I care that my ex lied to me about his reasons for breaking up with me, real reason was obviously I'm a horrible person and he fancied this girl while we were together.
    I care that my other ex obviously never really loved me the way I loved him.
    I care that the guy I really liked obviously stopped feeling the same way, and didn't even care enough to tell me.
    I just feel like theres no point even trying to meet someone, or letting myself like someone, because obviously no one ever truly likes me. I just feel like giving up.
    Words of wisdom anyone to make me feel better?
    Sorry its so long, needed to vent.


Comments

  • #2
    mikemac
    Closed Accounts Posts: 19,986 ✭✭✭✭mikemac


    unreg1 wrote: »
    I just feel like theres no point even trying to meet someone, or letting myself like someone, because obviously no one ever truly likes me. I just feel like giving up.

    Considering today I've read a thread from 32 year old guy who have never had a girlfriend, your current situation is a hundred times better then them. You have the ability to attract people and keep them. A year is a long time
    If you're noticing a pattern then stop and see if it's down to you. If not, laugh it off
    unreg1 wrote: »
    Words of wisdom anyone to make me feel better?
    .

    You're looking for somebody to tell you that you've had a string of bad luck and that you'll certainly meet someone special in the near future. Sorry, I won't be saying that.


  • #3
    Karen_*
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,610 ✭✭✭Karen_*


    There are six billion people in the world. Don't give up just because three of them weren't right for you. You probably will meet someone else when the time is right for you so don't despair.


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