Oh she must think im weird?

LegacyUser

Ok last weekend i was in club and i was actually on a total downer. when this really cute girl came up to me and started chatting and flirting with me (this never really happens to me!) So we chatted for while and then she brought me over to her friends and we chatted for nearly an hour and half (most guys would have made a move but i didnt! so everything going brillant were getting on really well. But then she says she is not feeling well and heads away.Then a while later her friend comes back and says that the girl i was talking to wanted her to give me her num. Only my phone is dead and i give the friend my num.so a few days no contact so i was thinking that her friend might have got my num wrong i look for the girl on facebook i find her add her and then msg but she didnt reply .So okay she dosnt like me? But what worries me is will she think i am weirdo/stalker?
Should i never go back to that niteclub? I know i probably mixed up fun flirting for something more it was just well girls never pay any attention to me and i thought she mite be special.

scarymoon1

you know what - some people are just head-wreckers. I remember i met a guy, he took my num but i heard nothing. I sent a message on facebook ( ok 2 i think ) and heard nothing. I posted about it on here. If I rememeber correctly I was called a bunny boiler and weird etc!!! Just leave it alone - maybe she wanted an ego boost to see if you would give her your number - I don't know what was going on in her head. When did you send the message by the way?

Peggypeg

Hey, the ball is in her court now, just leave it up to her, don't worry about it though!!! Just do whatever you would normally and if you bump into her just say hey!! There's really no need to be freaked out, sending one message on facebook does not make you a stalker.

Overheal

Totally foolish not to remember your own phone number, pin number, email address, house number, etc. etc.

Technology is as fallable as snowballs in arizona.

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Karmafaerie

She doesn't think you're weird.
There's noting wrong with what you did.

But to be honest, I'd leave it at that.
If you were to send a few more mesages, then it might look bad.
I only ever check whatever social networking sites I'm on every few days, or weeks sometimes, so it means nothing that she hasn't gotten back.


As Peggypeg said, the ball is in her court.
Leave it there.
If she does like you, she'll get in touch.
If she doesn't, she won't, no harm done.

Gyalist

Rookie mistake. Never give a girl your number. Either take the girls number or exchange numbers. 99% of women would never call you even if they fancied you.

tbh

she indicated she wanted you to get in contact, you got in contact, and you're worried about her reaction?

look man, there could be any number of explanations - maybe she changed her mind, maybe she doesn't remember you, maybe she doesn't use facebook - either way, you've done nothing wrong.

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But then she says she is not feeling well and heads away.Then a while later her friend comes back and says that the girl i was talking to wanted her to give me her num.

She liked the look of you. She talked to you a bit. She decided you weren't her type. Her friend decided she needs a fella, so went over to get the number for her. Girl was probably mortified and has no intention of speaking to you again.

Don't take it personally. Every girl out there isn't going to love you. The moral of the story is, do things directly - don't ever get into childish 'My friend likes you! What's your number!?' situations. If you're going to date someone, make sure they're mature enough to ask for a number themselves.