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Fiancee won't set a date

  • 13-12-2009 7:24pm
    #1
    Gentle Giant
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8 ✭


    Hi all,
    I proposed to my fiancee 18 months ago but she doesn't appear to be too keen to set a date. Anytime I try to talk to her about it she finds someway to brush me off...
    Before I proposed we had talked about it and we had agreed we'd wait a couple of years before we'd get married because we'd only just moved in together.
    I don't want to push her but I'm getting worried about her refusal to talk about it, I'm starting to think that maybe she has changed her mind.
    I know nobody here can answer that question...I'm just wondering is there anyone out there who has been through something similar or has any advice on how to handle the situation?


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  • #2
    Sinall
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 813 ✭✭✭Sinall


    Does she brush you off with a "Let's talk about this in a year or two honey", or is is more of a "Stop bring that up, I don't want to talk about it!"

    She might just like the idea of a long engagement but I can see how you would like to even have a notion of the year that you might get married. Maybe ask her "Do you think you would you like to get married in 2011 or 2012?" and see what her reaction is to that. If she doesn't even want to discuss a possible year then you will have to be more direct and ask her what's going on.


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