Another one of those I need a bf kinda thing

LegacyUser

Hi there:

well I think you knows how this goes, I ve been out of a "relationship" for about 2 years now and I m feeling quite lonely
I met a few guys ( i felt badly for one and its still taking its toll) but nothing went over a few months.
I m a very active person and go to a lot of events that involve meeting other people but for some reason I just ... i dont know it just doesnt happen
I m sorry for the rambling but I m kinda tired of being alone and I dont know what to do
I know none of you can fix it really, but I jsut needed to vent a bit

G-Money

No worries. If it makes you feel any better, I'm in a similar boat except that I'm male.

dudara

Sundays can be a really depressing day when you're single. But, you appear to have a good attitude and things will happen. Just keep trying.

LegacyUser

Thanks you guys

I ve been trying to think.. I m quite shy when I meet people and even ( i know this is stupid ok just bare with me) I was in a pub last night, and this guy kept looking at me so I looked back and I liked what I saw, however I didnt do anything he didnt do anything, and today I was thinking damn at least I should smiled at him I m not 12 right... but i find it really hard.. I dont know if that means anything
anyway... thanks

magneticimpulse

try internet dating? it at least gives you a head start into dating again.

Curio

magneticimpulse wrote: »

try internet dating? it at least gives you a head start into dating again.

+1

Its a good way to get out there...even if it doesnt come to anything..it takes a lot of the game-playing out of the equation which it good!

LegacyUser

well i ve been trying and some conversations are good, but its lead nowhere so far
it s been helping with my "talking to strangers" bit but It feels very remote like if it wasnt really me doing all the "talking" to the people
and i m not sure i m very succesfull either
Still thanks for the tip

I wish i was curled up with someone I love right now, ( I like my cat but ...its not the same )

And i know that you have problems in relationships and that noone is ever perfect
I m ready to risk it tho
I m not sure what I m trying to say here... perhaps things I cant say to anyone else

LegacyUser

Thanks, yeah I told some friends that I m kinda looking

I do enjoy certain aspects of singledom I love the freedom and the fact that I can just decide that I m off somewhere for the weekend and its done, and thanks for the thumbs up.

I find it pretty hard going throught the festive season with noone to spoil ( for lack of a better word)

As I type this i m reading and going WTF? am one of those desperate lonely people? and I would like to think i m not, but at this point I don't really know...it's really starting to get me down tho

2 years is a long time, the other day someone huged me for my birthday, maybe because I wasn't expecting it and just because I havent touched anyone in ages it felt really overwhelming ... intense, I can still feel it; that got me thinking if i actually meet someone that was half interested I could get a bit freaked out or whatever... I don't know it just got me thinking

MissHoneyBun

Possibly the worst reason for having a boyfriend is because you "need" one. What you do need is to be ok by yourself before embarking upon a relationship. If you're ok with yourself first and foremost, everything else follows from there!

Pete P Peterson

lonelySunday wrote: »

Hi there:

well I think you knows how this goes, I ve been out of a "relationship" for about 2 years now and I m feeling quite lonely
I met a few guys ( i felt badly for one and its still taking its toll) but nothing went over a few months.
I m a very active person and go to a lot of events that involve meeting other people but for some reason I just ... i dont know it just doesnt happen
I m sorry for the rambling but I m kinda tired of being alone and I dont know what to do
I know none of you can fix it really, but I jsut needed to vent a bit

grandmaster wrote: »

No worries. If it makes you feel any better, I'm in a similar boat except that I'm male.

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G-Money

Funny one Pete

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