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  • 04-12-2009 1:55pm
    #1
    Will 25
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3 ✭


    Hi all sorry a bit off the topic but new to this... im at my wits end right now and sick of people tellin me wat i want to hear, here goes i was going out with a girl for about 4 years.she had been told she can never have kids due to eating disorder. 3 and half years passed by and things got rocky between us, i broke up with her fgor arguements sake on a saturday and by the monday she was pregnant.We got back together and put things behind us.Total shock at her being pregnant but clouldnt wait for baby to be born.durin the pregnancy she stole money from my account and played along for 2 days had me going to the guards making statements and all.i brushed that off 2 as she was heavily pregnant at the time. our baby was born in august, then things started to get rocky between us again felt as if nothin i did was ever good enough and i was being constantly judged by my ex and mother in law.i had enough and broke up with her in may just gone.i recieved a phone call from my ex saying she was pregnant AGAIN!!!! we didnt plan the first one nor the second one. i had just lost my job and now this i said straight out i didnt want this as our relationship was over and my ex agreed. we agreed to a termination, my ex kept changing her mind about it up until the morning we were due to fly over. she is keepin it now my opinion still hasnt changed on my ex or keepin this baby. but if she wants to have it i will support it, she said if i want to see it i will have to fight for it. i already had to fight legally to see the first child so no real suprise... everythin is so shagged up!!!! has anyone else out there gone thru similar situation? im only 24 dont get me wrong i love my daughter to bits but this really is an awful situation. i cannot get back with this girl for the wrong reasons my family and friends are too hurt over wat she has said and done......help


Comments

  • #2
    tbh
    Closed Accounts Posts: 15,914 ✭✭✭✭tbh


    moved from the GC. OP, you'll get more advice here.


  • #3
    Will 25
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3 ✭Will 25


    Thanks kinda new to this so gettin used to it..


  • #4
    kittenkiller
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,433 ✭✭✭kittenkiller


    My advice would be to stop sleeping with her without a condom.
    That's how *more* babies will happen!!

    You fought for your first child, you'll have to fight for your second.
    Keep as much distance from the mother as possible bar discussions about the children.


  • #5
    Will 25
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3 ✭Will 25


    Ya thats the way things are between us now as little talk as possible. as for sleeping with her without protection she assured me was using contraceptive thought i could trust her...... should of known better.... hindsight is a wonderfull thing.... good to hear a strangers take on things though sick of people tellin me wat i want to hear.


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