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Unrequited love..hate going out.

  • 03-12-2009 9:12pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    I have a case of unrequited love to deal with at the moment. And I know I have to get over the person I like. The only thing is, I tend to move on by getting with other people. Not for sex but just getting with someone else so that I have someone else to distract me etc. However for some reason this time, maybe it's because the feeling is so strong, I'm finding it very hard. The person is in my close group of friends and so i see them pretty much every day and we normally go out together.
    I find myself dreading nights out with the person because I'm afraid of what i have to look at for the evening and then I find myself dreading nights on my own because it means I have to hurry up. It's making me sick the thoughts of having to move on, I just don't like the thought of letting go I suppose despite knowing I have to. I can't face seeing them with someone else right now and cutting them out of my life is not an option. They are within my social circle and I would have to cut far more than them in order to cut myself off so please do not list that as what I should do.


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  • #2
    ziedth
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,081 ✭✭✭ziedth


    Its a hard one,

    It happened to me as a teen, TBH I never really did get over it and it ended up costing my those friends. I guess you have to decide for yourself are your friends/social circle more important to you then this person? because i'd imagine they have noticed. It may sound easy but chalk it down to life experience and remember that there is ALWAYS someone else, I'm engaged now and I can only just about remember what the other girl looked like.

    Good luck.


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