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Feeling hurt and left out

  • 02-12-2009 11:36pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    hi all, id really like some advice on this please,
    lately iv been feeling really out of the loop with 2 of my friends. i feel like they are always planning things and doing stuff with out asking me. we used to be all really good friends with another girl and the 4 of us were best friends for years.
    though in the past year or so that girl started stirring fights with us and trying to cause arguments. now we hardly ever see her and they are open about not bothering to text her back or meet up etc. so most of the time it was just the 3 of us but a lot of the time i felt like i didnt fit in with them as im not as confident or as out going and i wasnt in college so i didnt have the same large group of college friends as they did.
    i tried talking to them about this like sometimes when we are out i feel like i might as well not even be there and if i lose them on a night out they dont even seem to notice. i feel like they just use me and only meet up if they want to borrow clothes or money and im sick of it. any time i text them and ask for something they avoid answering me, im starting to think that they are trying to cut me out?
    i just feel so alone and disapointed. i feel like i have nobody. i have always been there for them and i never fight with people but im sick of being taken for granted and nomatter how many times i have said how i felt they just dont seem to care.
    i dont know what to do anymore i just want to be friends with people who treat me like a proper friend.

    sorry this is so long and whingy.
    thanks very much.


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