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  • 02-12-2009 11:16pm
    #1
    Rocafella1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1 ✭


    Well basically, I'm in love with the girl of my dreams and I know I wanna be with her for the rest of my life and she feels the same. She makes me so happy all the time and I really truly adore her. The problem lies when she wants to go out to her friends:( Sh wants to see her friends on her own 2 or 3 nights a week which is normal.. but when she does this i get really paranoid that she will forget all about who I am or she will find someone:(:(: It causes havoc sometimes and I know if i don't stop i'll loose her forever.. What can I do to stop this:(:(:( Cheers.


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  • #2
    Grimlock
    Closed Accounts Posts: 302 ✭✭Grimlock


    The quickest way to loose a girl is to be clingy and desperate.

    What are you doing while she is out with her friends?
    If you're locked away by yourself infront of the TV or computer then you'll leave too much room for that nagging voice.

    Has she given you any reason not to trust her?
    Have you expressed any of these feeling to her?

    To be honest what she is doing is perfectly health and normal. You should arrange some time with your mates and stay occupied.


  • #3
    dublingal80
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,540 ✭✭✭dublingal80


    unfortunately the issue is with you and your own insecurities. You need to find out why you are so paranoid when she goes out. Why do you think she would do something?
    You said that she is the girl of your dreams and you want to be with her for the rest of your life and she feels the same way... so if thats the case she would never hurt you.

    You need to get yourself busy a couple of nights during the week. Take up a sport or meet friends. Show her that you also have your personal time with your friends too.

    Continue how you are and it will make things for you two a lot more difficult


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