How to get with this girl I know (school relationships)

LegacyUser

ok heres the story, im still in school, i am friends with this girl, she is hot. very hot. and fairly shy she has loads of friends that i also know and dosnt speak to much lads, ive dont really if she likes me but id say she does some bit anyway

Basically ive no idea how teenage relatioinships work, who texts who, or when, and then what to do ect very confusing to me...so if u could giv me a hand how this happens id appreciate it

i dont discuss the auld love life with friends because i am a male and risk being bet up if i ask for advice of them...anyway they know that i like her

im sort of stuck with what to do now, i dont have her number and im not too sure how to get it...and even if i did i wouldnt be too sure wha to do with it...

any help? thanks

ha i asked this question on an american site...jausus the answers i got... their worse off than i am! (its not just a matter of asking her out)

phic

Em in my experience, you tell her friend you like her. the friend then tells her. Friend tells you if she likes you or not, if she does, friend will produce girls number, you text her a few times asking "wat u up 2?" etc., after a few texts are exchanged you ask if she'd like to go to the cinema sometime.
She says yes, awkward date ensues and you kiss her at the end of the night. It will progress naturally from there.

This sounds like im being condescending or sarcastic or something but this is pretty much exactly how all my relationships from 13-16 happened! (how old are you actually?)
Not necessarily the best way, but sure it worked! Actually kinda wish it was still ok to do this!

Astrogeek

Tell her most bubbly friend that you like her. It's quite likely the friend will do most of the work from there.

Haha at least that's how it worked when I was in school.

LegacyUser

phic wrote: »

Em in my experience, you tell her friend you like her. the friend then tells her. Friend tells you if she likes you or not, if she does, friend will produce girls number, you text her a few times asking "wat u up 2?" etc., after a few texts are exchanged you ask if she'd like to go to the cinema sometime.
She says yes, awkward date ensues and you kiss her at the end of the night. It will progress naturally from there.

This sounds like im being condescending or sarcastic or something but this is pretty much exactly how all my relationships from 13-16 happened! (how old are you actually?)
Not necessarily the best way, but sure it worked! Actually kinda wish it was still ok to do this!

thanks, hmm gud plan alrite, im 18 so it wud be more nightclub style ha, and yeh she has a few bubbly friends

Nettie

Don't tell the friend!! People find being set up annoying nowadays :L I'm 15, and most my friends and me are in relationships. None of them were set up :L

Just get talking to her. Be brave and make conversation. Have you anything in common you can discuss?

Then when you know her well enough get her number. Text for a while. Be slightly flirty so she expects you like her, but don't be forcefull.

Then finally tell her you like her! She'll either say she likes you too, or say she doesn't. Then it's sorted If she says she likes you text for a few more days and then ask would she like to properly go out (as in meet up regularly, talk every day, etc.) Again, her answer will sort that out.

So there we go (: I hope this sorted you out!! Just remember to be brave! Sure, what have you to lose?

LegacyUser

phic wrote: »

Em in my experience, you tell her friend you like her. the friend then tells her. Friend tells you if she likes you or not, if she does, friend will produce girls number, you text her a few times asking "wat u up 2?" etc., after a few texts are exchanged you ask if she'd like to go to the cinema sometime.
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In my time t used to be called "fixing ya up with someone". What you need is someone to "fix ya up with her".Seriously this is it

LegacyUser

Nettie wrote: »

Don't tell the friend!! People find being set up annoying nowadays :L I'm 15, and most my friends and me are in relationships. None of them were set up :L

Just get talking to her. Be brave and make conversation. Have you anything in common you can discuss?

Then when you know her well enough get her number. Text for a while. Be slightly flirty so she expects you like her, but don't be forcefull.

Then finally tell her you like her! She'll either say she likes you too, or say she doesn't. Then it's sorted If she says she likes you text for a few more days and then ask would she like to properly go out (as in meet up regularly, talk every day, etc.) Again, her answer will sort that out.

So there we go (: I hope this sorted you out!! Just remember to be brave! Sure, what have you to lose?

The problem is how do i get her number??

RacoonQueen

origenal poster wrote: »

The problem is how do i get her number??

Ask her for it.

Are there any subjects she's really good at? You could ask her for help in said subject and work it from there.