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Meeting up for internet sex???

  • 29-11-2009 2:25am
    #1
    names_all_gone
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5 ✭


    hi

    basically i met a guy online this week and im soooo fed up recently. He said he justs wants fun and would like to meet me. I have never ever met anyone from the net b4 and i think whats the harm in fun? i.e. sex. my last relationship was a while ago and had lots of sex!!!! :) he is a bit older then me. Would it be wrong?


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  • #2
    shellyboo
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,883 ✭✭✭shellyboo


    Nope, it wouldn't be wrong.

    BUT. Here are things you need to do.

    - See a recent picture and make sure you fancy him!
    - Arrange to meet at first for a drink/coffee in a public place
    - Make it clear that sex is not a guarantee on that first meet... chemistry can be there on the internet but not in real life
    - Let someone know where you're going to be and arrange a time to text them to let them know you're ok. No need to tell them it's just sex, pretend it's a date.
    - Bring condoms.
    - Go with your gut. If it doesn't feel right, walk away.

    Just be careful in general - and enjoy!


  • #3
    minidazzler
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,650 ✭✭✭✭minidazzler


    +1 on everything Shelly said. ESPECIALLY about the Public place and no guarantees!!!!


  • #4
    That_Guy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 51,342 ✭✭✭✭That_Guy


    You say you're meeting up for sex but make sure that you're entirely comfortable first before giving consent.

    I'd do what Shelly says. Top advice. Stay in a public place for as long as possible so you can get a good read of the guy.

    If things seem a little off then go.

    Good luck.


  • #5
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    You can learn alot about someone on the internet except about the chemistry.

    TBH I don't really understand why you're doing this? Sex is the easiest thing in the world to find for a girl, and at least if you meet someone on a night out and then meet them again you know you have chemistry.
    And for me anyway, nothing sounds as unsexy as meeting a stranger you've already discussed having sex with. Where's the frisson? The anticipation? Sounds more awkward and desperate than thrilling. But I suppose you won't know til you go and see.

    But remember you're the girl in these situations, you've got the power. And some of the fun of that is in holding back and being chased ;-) way sexier.


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