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Head melter

  • 29-11-2009 12:19am
    #1
    solar energy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 9 ✭


    hi...
    just feelin a rant coming on looking for feedback ha

    ders a friend of my boyfriends who i really dislike.. wudnt u guess its a girl..
    my bf knows how i feel about her.. am i totally over reacting if i want him not 2 speak 2 her ??? like not ignore her 2 her face but not answer her txts or watever..

    help!!
    (ps: honest!!! im not a crazy lunatic control freak with OCD!!) promise.. :)


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  • #2
    That_Guy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 51,342 ✭✭✭✭That_Guy


    solar energy wrote: »
    hi...
    just feelin a rant coming on looking for feedback ha

    ders a friend of my boyfriends who i really dislike.. wudnt u guess its a girl..
    my bf knows how i feel about her.. am i totally over reacting if i want him not 2 speak 2 her ??? like not ignore her 2 her face but not answer her txts or watever..

    help!!
    (ps: honest!!! im not a crazy lunatic control freak with OCD!!) promise.. :)

    If she's a good friend of your bf's and they've been friends for a while then you are definitely over reacting to asking him not to speak to her.

    It sounds like you're just jealous and worried that she might be a threat to you.

    But relax. Your boyfriend chose you. He obviously likes you and not this other girl.

    You're not gonna like everyone you meet but you'll have to grin and bear it I'm afraid.


  • #3
    Liam Byrne
    Closed Accounts Posts: 18,163 ✭✭✭✭Liam Byrne


    I'd offer advice, but I don't reply to text-speak. Sorry!


  • #4
    Monkey61
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,137 ✭✭✭Monkey61


    You are completely overreacting. You cannot tell your partner who they can and can't be friends with. It sounds like major insecurity, jealousy and control freakery on your part.

    There is no quicker way to seem unattractive in your boyfriend's eyes than to pursue this line of action and unless he is a complete doormat, then you will lose his respect and him just as quickly.


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