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is this weird?

  • 27-11-2009 3:12pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    my mam died this year and my school teacher i had in primary school came to the funeral to pay his respects, now i havent seen this guy in nearly over twenty years but he wrote me a really long letter to say he was sorry to hear she had died and talked about his problems, anyway, my father died two weeks ago and he went to my house to pay his respects and he spent an hour with my brothers and sisters saying how lovely i am and if im ok and then he asked for my number, my brother lied and said he didnt have it but he could leave his number and i could call myself, so he left his mobile, work and home number, dont get me wrong, im the last person to turn away from someones problems but i just feel hes going to unload on me and ive enough stress at the moment, what to u think??


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  • #2
    Danniboo
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    Lock up the bunnies and run, yeah this is really weird. Do you live in a small community or something where everyone would know your parents died or did he go out of his way to go to the funerals?


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    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Danniboo wrote: »
    Lock up the bunnies and run, yeah this is really weird. Do you live in a small community or something where everyone would know your parents died or did he go out of his way to go to the funerals?


    yeah, its a really small community and my parents were well known in the parish and lived beside the school but the last time i spoke to him was over 15 years ago, like the guy is married and my gut reaction was what the hell?!!! but i dont need anyone to unload onto me with their grief for my parents, like the letter was nice but its like he wanted me to probe but i sent a note back to say thank you for your kind words and wishes, that was it, so i dunno if i should ignore him or call him, hide my id and see what he wants


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