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  • 25-11-2009 11:56am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    My exgirlfriend and I broke up at Christmas last year. We broke up because we were living on different sides of the country, and couldn't see each other. We both had no money, or cars so couldn't travel. She had just come back from 6 months in Australia. We had been going out for two years, including the time she was in Australia. We were perfect together. I made her happy, made her feel safe and secure. She made me happy, and was always a person I could trust, which was a hard thing for both of us.
    Over the past few months I've really started to miss her. More so than when she was in Oz. When we broke up, I said that I could handle her being on the other side of the planet and not seeing her, and doing the LDR. But I couldn't do it knowing she was just a bus journey away, but still not being able to see her. It was a mutual agreement, but neither of us wanted it.

    I think it may have been the biggest mistake of my life.

    And now I don't know what to do. I'm sitting here typing this shaking, because I'm scared, anxious, crying. I want to tell her how much I miss her, but I'm scared of what she'll say, That she's moved on and found someone new, or doesn't think she could feel the same as when we were going out.

    But if she did say that she wants to be together again, I'd do everything in my power to make it happen.

    I don't know whether to call her and tell her, text her, or go down and visit for the day and tell her face to face.


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  • #2
    fairycakes
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 201 ✭✭fairycakes


    Hi OP

    Sorry to hear about how your feeling its not nice. You have to tell her
    how you feel what have you got to lose?? You will feel no worse then you do now..and if you two love each other and want to be togerher you will work out the distance its that easy don't ever have regrets in life...

    I really hope it works out the way you want let us know how it goes...big hug x


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