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About last night

  • 23-11-2009 2:02pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    Hey, In a bit of a puzzle today. Long story short, was out at the weekend and ended up bringing a "friend" back to mine...We were both fairly messed up but ended up in bed. As you can imagine things happened, Not much to be honest, as I said we were both trashed. Its all a bit of a blurr but the deed was done, if only a fumbling effort for a couple of minutes.

    Thing is I woke next morning and she was gone, didn't hear her leave. Now she is a friend but not a close one. More of a friend of a friend really. Haven't heard anything since but the story has come out, bit of slagging going on today...which is fine, to be expected really. I should say that It wasn't me that told anyone, I was told by a mutual friend the next morning. (by text before I even woke)

    So I don't really know what I should do now. I do like her, but am unsure whether she is into it, as i said we were trashed the other night. and to be fair it wasn't exactly a great "performance" if ya get me, this was due to booze more then anything. Should I contact her or leave things lie....Don't want ackwardness either way. Don't have her number either so this would be an email contact, which may be weird I dunno.

    Any thoughts?


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  • #2
    dublingal80
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,540 ✭✭✭dublingal80


    if she is a friend of a friend, get her number off your mutual friend and just send her a general text to see how she is feeling after the mental weekend. either that or just leave it till next time you are all out together


  • #3
    Miss Fluff
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    unreg1981 wrote: »
    So I don't really know what I should do now. I do like her, but am unsure whether she is into it?

    You just need to find out, don't you?:) Drop her an email and ask for her number or get her number from a friend and ask her if she fancies meeting up for a few drinks.


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Well, took the advice, got the number and texted, no reply, ah well!! Saying that I just kind of excused myself for being so drunk friday night...might have been taken the wrong way I suppose.


  • #5
    martdalto
    Closed Accounts Posts: 211 ✭✭martdalto


    Unreg1981 wrote: »
    might have been taken the wrong way I suppose.

    That might be it alright!! She told someone about it which meant she musn't have really been THAT embarrassed by it herself. I had one of those nights years ago.. and I told NOBODY. Now years and years later, the only person who knows is my husband, I'm still so embarrassed by it!!

    Who knows what she thinking.. maybe the best thing to do now is leave it until you are out again and casually talk to her then. (The demon drink will have lowered the defenses too, to make it easier!!)


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