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Repeat History?

  • 22-11-2009 11:00pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi, Im in my late 20s man.
    I've decided to to go unreged.

    A number of years ago, I meet a girl on a forum due to similier interest's.
    Those interests are booth still a live.
    Any way we got to know each other emails then texts she grew on me quite quickly.
    I must admit at the time I was very insecure about my self so any sort of female attention
    made me think that she wanted to be more then friends. But she had meet someone else at the time I was pretty upset more so I had built everything up in my head.
    So I dropped contact went of did my own thing, i didnt really have any interest in talking to her as I was feeling sorry for my self and just wanted to forget about it... To be honest I felt as tho she lead me on, to a degree I think she did to, but thats the past. Fast forward 4 years... Ocasional email here and there.

    Back in june we got back in contact with each other, well actualy she came into my mind because i was driving threw the village she did live in and you no reminded me of her any way after i got on and no word of a lie she started to chat to me on msn which was a bit shocking...
    Any way she's single, we have talked about the past I explained to her a few things that needed to be straigtened out, about me and my past, because I wasn't going to let her throw any digs about how I once had pride, these days I have confidance I can admit when im wrong or let soemthing go.

    So past 6 months weve been emailing chating on face book odd text here and there a bit not to much, to much contact gets a bit boreing. So there something we booth aggreed to do a very fun activity...

    To be honest I waited 4 years for this to happen (there has been other women and presently a number of other women who I would like to get to know) Just in case im coming of desperate going back to the past. I know this sounds cheasy but theres something about her, the way I see it, We booth can have a good time and nothing happens and we loose interest in each other or something good happens we could be come friends or better still, we go some where.

    What I'm wondering, does it sound like I'm repeating history and maybe Im a bit more emotionaly mature, and ready to see how it pans out?

    what do you think?


Comments

  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,277 ✭✭✭DamagedTrax


    go for it. if you dont you'll always wonder why?

    if it doesnt work you move on.

    even if you get hurt again then what have you lost really? we all get hurt but its not a reason to not try, is it? :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,649 ✭✭✭✭CDfm


    Go for it and stop over analysing and procrastinating.

    If you were an eejit in the past man up to it.

    Given she likes you give it a try and if she is not interested move on.


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