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Kiss

  • 19-11-2009 11:43pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I'm 21, never had a girlfriend. I don't know how to say it but I have the confidence to chat up girls after a few drinks, can make them laugh. I am sure they are attracted to me but then when its time to kiss and the moves it all goes wrong.. I never really had a proper kiss because of this they back off after a minute cos i just have no ability. I have thought for a while it would come naturally as soon as lips meet, but no. There are many ways of doing it? Im so confused, it is upsetting me. Some guys just know what to do.. I have no experience and hands too what to do etc..Its just I met a girl I liked recently and I knew she liked me until this moment.. Any advice much appreciated.


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  • #2
    Kimia
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,897 ✭✭✭Kimia


    Hi Op. I doubt very much they are backing off because you don't have the 'moves'. No offence at all intended, but do you think maybe you might have a breath problem? Maybe check that out.

    Also it sounds like you're overthinking it too. Don't be worrying, it will come naturally if you relax and go along with the moment. Practice! Have fun!


  • #3
    Bonito
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,399 ✭✭✭Bonito


    Small tips.

    1.dont dive in
    2.dont try stick your tongue down the back of her throat
    3.take your time-sensual kisses are better than grabbing the back of her head an kissing aggressivly (there's a time and place for that)
    4.pay attention to her lips rather than her tongue,particularly top lip,purse her top lip between yours while kissing and she'll most likely react in the same manner to your bottom lip.
    5.let her know you're nervous-play with her hair,hands etc
    6.you dont need to be minty fresh just make sure there's no bad taste or smell from your breath-try cherry airwaves they taste better than a spicy minty tongue lol
    7. just relax and enjoy the moment,dont think about what you're doing,if you're really nervous just slightly lean back and let her take lead of how the kiss goes,all you have to do is follow her lips


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