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Gah! The crush pangs are back :(

  • 17-11-2009 9:00pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    OK, I was over this girl for ages, after having an unrequited crush/infatuation/whatever for about 4 years (long story, here somewhere, not telling which one). Got on with life, was hapy with my "normalisation" progress, until today.

    I've known she had a boyfreind, and it was that that made me stop the crush and tell myself to cop on. accepted that, moved on. Boyfreind had to go work abroad for a few months, those two still together, still no problem my end.

    Hear she will head over to his country for Christmas. Gutted. I have no good reason for being so, but I was just down in the dumps all day today.

    I'm annoyed with myself. It's none of my business what she does for Christmas. So why do I feel so hurt?

    So much progress in accepting the facts, lost today!

    Any others been in the same situation, where someone you cared deeply for moved on with their life (as is their right), yet you feel hurt?

    (I don't normally write like this, but today I need to mask my ID.)


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  • #2
    Bonito
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,399 ✭✭✭Bonito


    whattodo99 wrote: »
    OK, I was over this girl for ages, after having an unrequited crush/infatuation/whatever for about 4 years (long story, here somewhere, not telling which one). Got on with life, was hapy with my "normalisation" progress, until today.

    I've known she had a boyfreind, and it was that that made me stop the crush and tell myself to cop on. accepted that, moved on. Boyfreind had to go work abroad for a few months, those two still together, still no problem my end.

    Hear she will head over to his country for Christmas. Gutted. I have no good reason for being so, but I was just down in the dumps all day today.

    I'm annoyed with myself. It's none of my business what she does for Christmas. So why do I feel so hurt?

    So much progress in accepting the facts, lost today!

    Any others been in the same situation, where someone you cared deeply for moved on with their life (as is their right), yet you feel hurt?

    (I don't normally write like this, but today I need to mask my ID.)
    I have a similar situation but im not going to mask myself as she's put it well out into the open anyway :)

    As you I was head over heels etc etc etc and we were together for 2 years and what not,then we split up,not a break but proper split up and seeing other ppl and we'd meet up an odd time to see how each other was doing.

    I met a new girl who is now my girlf,but i didnt tell my ex about her,a couple of weeks later i find out she has a new boyf,there together not even 2 months and they're engaged and to my knowledge she's pregnant (maybe that's the reason for the engagement i dont kno) but the fact is as much as i though we had together she says she has it better with him after only a month or 2 and she's never felt love like this etc.

    It didnt bother me at all because I had moved on before her and there are no feelings left,but it's a major kick to your pride when you go spending 2 years of your life with a girl and then a couple months later she's said yes to spending the rest of her years with someone else.

    Get up and get out,there's someone for everyone and if you two are gonna be given a chance sometime in the future you'll cross each others path somewhere along the line :)


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