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  • 17-11-2009 11:36am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    how do you know when your relationship is over?


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  • #2
    Wibbs
    Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,217 Mod ✭✭✭✭Wibbs


    More detail would help TBH. How long are you going out for? Are there many arguments? Is there a specific argument you both keep having but isnt resolved? Has the physical side of the relationship dwindled? Do you suspect the other person is losing interest? those kinda things.

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  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    near to 4 years. not really much arguments more to do with the fact we never see eachother and it doesnt bother him physical side is kinda non existent right now as we both live at home. just feel he's loosin interest but i dont want to admit it to myself.


  • #4
    mood
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,264 ✭✭✭mood


    You need to look at why you don't see each other. Is it possible to see each other more but he won't make the effort? If this is the case your in trouble.


  • #5
    dublingal80
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,540 ✭✭✭dublingal80


    sounds like you's are growing apart. It doesnt have to end tho. Arrange a dinner out for the two of you or a weekend away together to get that spark back. you have to work at relationships. They arent all just plain sailing


  • #6
    xzanti
    Moderators, Entertainment Moderators Posts: 10,446 Mod ✭✭✭✭xzanti


    Yeah a dinner date and a long deep chat is a must I think.. Have you spoken to him about your concerns thus far? Do you want the relationship to be over or do you want to work on it? 4 years is a long time, would be a shame to just let it fall by the wayside..


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