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How to get over being the 'victim' of cheating

LegacyUser · 2009-11-16 20:57:29

I am led to believe my OH had a bit of a pissed up fumble. He denies this obviously but I have sources who have told me he confided drunkenly. Basically he couldn't perform. He said this is a load of crap, how do I deal with it not knowing if it is true or not? We have been together 3 years, engaged 2, living together 1.…

16-11-2009 8:57pm

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I am led to believe my OH had a bit of a pissed up fumble. He denies this obviously but I have sources who have told me he confided drunkenly. Basically he couldn't perform.

He said this is a load of crap, how do I deal with it not knowing if it is true or not?

We have been together 3 years, engaged 2, living together 1. Do I throw it away for a rumour/drunken mistake?

How can I get the thought of it out of my head?

Can you ever get over it?

He swears on the bible it is bull**** but how do I know?

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#2 16-11-2009 9:20pm

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Hi Bubblewrap

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