Attracted to Girlfriends sister!!!

unreg101

Ok going unreg for this.

As the title says I am seriously physically attracted to my girlfriends sister. I have been with my girlfriend for 4 years and love her very much. However she has a sister who I have always thought was good looking but lately have been finding myself checking her out alot and getting turned on by her body and looks. I am fully aware this is stupid and its probobly just the fact that she is my girlfriends hot sister and there is definately a fantasy in there somewhere but I would like to keep it in that category and not start thinking about her more often because that could leed to serious problems.

So basically I guess I'm asking does anybody out there have a bf/gf with hot siblings that you have just had to look at over the years and managed to not think to much about or develop any kind of real feelings for? Will she just eventually stop being my girlfriends hot sister and just be my girlfriends sister?

minidazzler

It's a fantasy. That's all, it mightn't pass but as long as you don't act on it, it's a perfectly acceptable thing to have.

Though, I suspect this might be a passing infatuation. You sound like you started thinking of her as a total hottie years after knowing her!!! I would bet that she didn't just become a total hottie overnight.

You will get over her man. She's just another hot girl after all!!!

LegacyUser

My bf's brother is georgous, I've always found him attractive, but so what? Fantasising about him is not a place I allow my mind to wander because I feel that it is itself an emotional betrayal of my bf. How would you feel if you knew your gf was lusting after your brother in her mind?

I think you should knock it off. You know, as I did, that dwelling sexually on your partners sibling is just inherantly not right. Besides anything else, it's hardly going to be beneficial for your relationship, same way as it wouldnt have been for mine.

unreg101

Well she has always been hot of course but only lately did I start thinking that maybe this could be a pretty bad thing that I think of her like that. But I suppose your right I should just forget the fact that she is her sister and just think of her as another hot Irish girl and get over it. Cheers

Bottle_of_Smoke

Does she fancy you?

If not this will probably pass. If so then you're going to have to confront this issue head on and decide what you want.

JonathanAnon

samesituation wrote: »

How would you feel if you knew your gf was lusting after your brother in her mind?

Wouldnt it be funny if you and the OP turned out to be partners.. :-)

As far as fancying your gf's sister, this is awkward especially if she likes you too. There always be a drunken party somewhere, where you'll be left on your own with her and the possibility of you doing something you will regret. I would try to stay away from her as much as is possible, to avoid temptation.

dsmythy

You just don't get between sisters. Shake it off and forget it.