Sex

LegacyUser

Hi,
I have been living with my gf for the last few weeks while she waits for her apartment to get finished. I am amazed at her sexual appetite. I know I have a quite a high sex drive but she seems to be almost insatiable. We're both in our mid-twenties and things are good between us.

My query is we hardly, if ever, kiss without having sex. 99% of the time she will start touching me and rubbing me as we go about the day and we'll have sex, even if there are people in the house she will follow me into another room and try to have a quickie.

She likes to have sex about 6 times a day on average, every day. I am not complaining but I do think she is somewhat obsessed.

Now I enjoy the sex, it is mindblowing. But I am starting to think she is addicted to sex. She has described feeling very lonely in her current job, and she is not from Ireland, we only moved here last year so her social circle is very small. She has an unusual relationship with her family, in essence they are close but there is a lack of proper love. I think she uses sex as a drug. She has always been like this, but living with her I wonder if she may be more addicted than I realised. She was like this from the moment we met.

Addicts can be reckless, and I don't want to get messed around.

St James

what exactly is your query?

do you love her?

Do you enjoy?

would you rather less sex? if so, why not tell her.

Wagon

Reading between the lines, im guess you're worried that she'll sleep with anyone when you aren't around. Did she ever cheat on previous partners before? If so then you might have your answer.

On the other hand maybe you're a handsome devil and she can't keep her hands off you.

fend

Enjoy it while it lasts...

The novelty wears off after a couple of months and eventually decreases over time....

Seriously, enjoy it while it lasts!!!

LegacyUser

I'm kinda in a similar situation, but somehow I'm coping

When ever I stay over at my girlfriends we just have sex all night and I'm totally wrecked in the morning. Bruises, sleep deprevation, grazes, carpet burn, the works. We'll have sex and then settle down to sleep, 20 minutes later Ill wake up to her humping my leg - totally insatiable.

She asked me over tonight but I had to make an excuse not to go because I know I'll be fecked for the rest of the day.

I can imagine what it would be like if we lived together.

magneticimpulse

i think this is odd, 6 times every day??? i know guys who can maybe squeeze 4 times a day, but not every day. i love sex, but 42 times a week, thats excessive!! thats like 2184 times a year. i beg to wonder what she did before she met you

TomCo

magneticimpulse wrote: »

i beg to wonder what she did before she met you

Nun?

Zaph

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Piste

She likes having sex 6 times a day, and you say you also like having sex 6 times a day...but she's the addict?

What's she like when she's not having sex with you? Like when you're normally living apart, is she constantly trying to have you over for sex?

Maybe she's just making the most of her living with you for a short time.