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Friend Problem.

  • 13-11-2009 9:13am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Having problems. My bf isn't talking to me because he doesn't like one of my friends. He doesn't like us being friends because he thinks my friend fancies me. I don't know what to do. I don't want to stop being friends because I think it is silly. But should I cut him off for the sake of our relationship?


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  • #2
    dirtydress
    Closed Accounts Posts: 356 ✭✭dirtydress


    That's really up to you. Personally I don't think any healthy relationship involves a partner dictating who you can and cannot be friends with. It introduces a level of control by this person and who's to say they'll stop at this one friend, what about your sister/brother or other friends that they happen to not get along with? If your boyfriend doesnt trust you then he has his own issues and needs to deal with them, not punish you or your friend over it.

    Also he sounds quite young, not talking to someone over an issue is not a mature way to deal with a problem, would you be better off without him?


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    No he is not young. we are both late 20s in a ltr. I kno it sounds stupid. He gets sulky whenever i get a txt and wont talk to me for ages. I decided not to even bother trying this time and slept on the couch last night.


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