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Advice on my gf - lack of fone contact

  • 13-11-2009 8:33am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Going out a few months. We get on FAB. We have had the 'talk' and are committed to each other. Both know we're very lucky to have found each other.... but..................

    When we are actually together (which is about 3/4 days / nights a week) all is brilliant..couldnt ask for more :-).

    But when we're apart it as if I dont exist...hardly a text or phone call...my texts are either not replied to or its HOURS later..I dont mind during the day as we both have busy jobs...

    I've brought this up and have been told she is crap with texts / calls (this is true mind you .. Ive seen her text and she's awfully slow..has forgotten her phone lots too..)

    It's really bugging me..I'm not needy now .. a wee text every now and again would be nice though...

    Any time we talk on fone it's i that rings....

    Yesterday...nada all day so I texted at 5...no reply..she rang at 9 but that was seeking a phone number off me..I was in company so asked her to buzz me later when she was settled so we could have a wee yap........what did I get?..nite nite text at midnight (which is more than I normally get)..
    Have kinda decided to stop any texts or fone calls and see what happens....
    Advice??


Comments

  • #2
    dirtydress
    Closed Accounts Posts: 356 ✭✭dirtydress


    It sounds like just what you said...she's useless with phones! If you've noticed that she's done this with other people too and when you're together she's not texting loads then I'd say you've nothing to worry about its just the type of person she is. If your relationship is great in all ways then I say count your blessings!


  • #3
    John Mason
    Hosted Moderators Posts: 10,661 ✭✭✭✭John Mason


    Not everyone has their phone surgically attached to their bodies. she is probably like me couldnt be bothered replying to text messages unless they require yes/no answers.

    To me phones are for 2 mins conversations, half the time i cant be bothered even answering calls. if i have i something to say, i will call but i dont understand this calling for a chat business whats the point, especially as she sees you 4 nights a week.

    i am showing my age here but i remember when no one had mobiles or landlines and guess what we all survived and i think a lot happier.

    give the girl a break


  • #4
    Fiend-Foe
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 481 ✭✭Fiend-Foe


    + 1 above

    Yeah, if you have a normal happy relationship then your sorted. Those damn mobile phones are the source of a lot of problems on here.

    "I was having a text relationship and we were textin all the time, but I sent 3 texts and he only sent 2 back, does he hate me now??"

    Phones are only to arrange meetings, confirm plans. Maybe chat if you haven't seen the person in ages/won't see them for ages.


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