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How to break it off with her?

  • 11-11-2009 8:14pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I'm 23 and have been going out with my girlfriend for over 2 years. However I broke up with her for about 2 months after the 1st year. We both missed each other so got back together.

    I'm having serious second thoughts about our relationship again recently, mainly due to boredom and not having the time for my own personal pursuits. I live with 2 bachelours and I really miss having no cares in the world like them. I feel like this relationship is a drag, week after a week and that we are just doing the rounds and going around in circles. We have a good sex life but that's one of the few things that's really keeping me interested.

    The problem is the last time I broke up with her I just told her straight up one day, out of the blue and that was that. She was quite upset and made me swore I'd never do that again when we got back together. How do I end this without too much pain or is it possible!?


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  • #2
    How Soon Is Now
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,136 ✭✭✭✭How Soon Is Now


    You could just tell her you need talk to her explain how your feeling about things gettin a bit stale and that something has to be done or u feel the relationship is going no where.

    Dont just dump her try and talk this threw and listen to what she says first of all
    If both of you can not make things better then you have no choice but to be straight forward and tell her that u tried u both tried but things are just not working out.

    Just dont be blunt about this its not right way to end things with someone you know so long try and sort things the right way first.


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