This is probably gonna sound stupid...

LegacyUser

Right well I've know this girl for a while, thought she was a legend, got on really well first time talking to her but didn't really hang around in the same circles. Well over the last month or 2 everyone I know has pretty much started hanging around together.

I got wind from a friend that she liked me but I shrugged it off thinking it was a wind up (I'm a paranoid freak at the best of times lol). Anyways ended up kissing her friday night, she was telling me she wanted to for ages and was hoping I'd pick up on it, had a great night, bailed from the club, was mangled nights a bit of a blur, and said I would drop her a text in the morning.

Now back to the paranoia! Wake up in the morning and start over thinking every thought that came into my mind, will I text her, should I leave it a few days, should I wait for contact first, should I wait till I bump into her next time I'm out or on facebook, am i being obsessive, was I being clinging, is it just a kiss she wanted or could it be more, how should I approach it, is everyone watching, do I need a hat made of tinfoil..................... etc.

I think you'll get the message!

I'm a bit hopeless when it comes to women, some advice or a cold bucket of reality over my head would be nice

Kiera

If you're too shy to ring her then drop her a text. Dont leave it any longer tho. She said she wanted to kiss you so go for it. She's probably at home feeling the same way or thinking you dont like her.

Seraphina

i hope you bloody well texted her!!!

Darthhoob

if you said you will text her in the morning...text her...in the morning. otherwise she'll more than likely think your playing games or not interested. if you just said you'd text her sometime that's different...but you gave her a time when you would lol.

LegacyUser

Thanks for the kick! sent on a message, see what happens!

that wasnt so hard now was it...

Kiera

fo0ol wrote: »

Thanks for the kick! sent on a message, see what happens!

that wasnt so hard now was it...

Best of luck

Darthhoob

fo0ol wrote: »

Thanks for the kick! sent on a message, see what happens!

that wasnt so hard now was it...

i think women aren't very complicated till men complicate things lol

*and yes i know i ma generalising *

good luck

dsmythy

Well barring a complete 180 from her you ought to be already thinking of the date you just created.