Sticky Situation with the GF and my mother.

LegacyUser

To Give you some information we're both 21/20 respectively living at home, in college, and have both been seeing each other for several months which has all gone fine with the typical fights etc.

We seem to be going through a very big down patch at the moment and it's coming down to my mum. Last night my girlfriend landed the bombshell that she no longer wants to come down to mine anymore specifically because my mum just doesn't like her, now I'm not going to say that my mum does or doesn't but she did tolerate her and didn't give her any hassle etc but it was obvious from the offset that when she was first introduced that my mum didn't take a liking to her.

The problem being is now my girlfriend doesn't really know if things will work out if we have to be down at her's all the time, especially with being students we can't exactly afford days out every single night etc, and I don't know what to do, we both love each other so much and if I'm being honest if i was put in her position I'd be extremely put off as well, to feel horrible in your boyfriends house is wrong, to feel uncomfortable and not wanted. It's just not right.

I don't know what to do in this situation, I really don't want to lose my girlfriend, we're both each others "ones" and clearly love each other alot, we've gone through alot together.

What do I do, I need so serious help.

shellyboo

You have two options - move out, or put up with it. So what if your mother doesn't like her? By not having her in the house, allowing her to affect the relationship negatively, you're giving her just what she wants.

Stick to your guns - suck it up and ignore your mother.