am i just jealous??

solar energy

am i the only one who feels like this?? help?

i have a bf for a year and a bit.. hes a musician and a dj so he gets alot of attention off others girls.. (friends and strangers).
fair enough right?
So why is it that girls think they can flirt wit him when they no he has a gf...ME!
they just say aw its innocent or hes only my mate! but i know wat girls want from flirting, i am one, its complete attention seeking.
i feel totally disrespected!!! like even when im in the room!!!
i just feel like shoutin f**K off!!

they might have acted this way wen he was single,... but shouldn't they have to change their tune now that hes with someone?

Galvasean

I don't think R&R is teh best place for this. I'll move it to Personal Issues. You should geta better response there.

greengiant09

don't know why your so surprised....quite a lot of women do this.....it's pretty sad.

Yep, it's so disrespectful. There's always girls trying to sit on my boyfriend's knee and putting their arms around him when we're out......ffs like! 'Only messing' my arse. I'd never be like that with a guy who had a girlfriend. There's not a lot you can do either, as saying anything to them makes you look like a jealous bunny boiler :rolleyes:

LegacyUser

I have to agree with you, it is disrespectful but like the last poster said , if you say anything your going to probably be percieved as a 'psycho bitch' (which i dont think you are at all!) its totally normal for you to feel like that, some girls are just like that but if your boyfriend is not the type to do anything about this attention then you obviously dont have anything to be worried about... just try and look at them as sad little people who cant get a fella of their own so they want to make themselves feel better by throwing themselves at yours - who actually doesnt want them either!!! God- what sad lives girls like that have Hahaha !!

Overheal

Men in Relationships Bleed confidence. Ye wimmin go toes over eyeballs for it.

I think thats why they invented the Promise Ring, http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pre-engagement_ring

at least Im sure thats part of it!

dublingal80

some women, sad to say, want what they cant have. They like the chase, the flirting, seeing how much they can go and push the guy that has a girlfriend. a friend of mine seems to only go after guys that has girlfriends. Its starting to give her a bad name so she is stepping back now

If you trust your boyfriend 100% and you know that NOTHING would happen, then dont do anything. Those girls will just make themselves look VERY stupid!

Sinall

solar energy wrote: »

they might have acted this way wen he was single,... but shouldn't they have to change their tune now that hes with someone?

Yes, they should. But you don't have any control over what other girls do! Just because you know that something is right/wrong, or know the appropriate way to act doesn't mean that others do....and there's not a thing you can do about it!

Once your boyfriend is treating you in the right way and not disrespecting you then things are fine! I understand your frustrations with girls coming onto him etc, but you can't change the way they act.

nesbitt

Hmmn, are you being made feel jealous. I think attractive people will always be hit on thats the way it goes. How he deals with this is the key to how you feel about it.... Does he revel in it and expect you to be cool with it?

solar energy

omg thank u all so much for helping me out.!!

ur all so kind.. i understand all the advice uve suggested..
i know my bf is 100% committed to me... its just ive never had 2 deal with girls who are like this..

you have all been so helpful.

i hope i can return the favour in the future!

yours thankfully, xx