Giving to others

LegacyUser

I've been feeling down lately, and I would love the opportunity to give to others, help others, do something that will get me out of the 'oh poor me' bull****, and start actually making a difference in the world.

The only thing is, I'm quite shy, but I'd be willing to put my head forward to something. Does anyone have any recommendations on how would can give to others, without it being too public, maybe something small to start off with, or whatever anyone has experience with, I'd be welcome to listen to them. (Like humanitarian stuff) I currently have a degree in computers, but feel i need something more out of life than working for a 9-5 job everyday. I want to give back... if that makes sense.

e04bf099

The best advice I can give is to build it into to your life and routine, as opposed to trying to suppliment your life in some way.

A good analogy is going to the gym. I am of the opinion that the best way to keep fit and healthy in a sustainable fashion is to walk more in your daily routine and eat more veg.

It is the same with your feelings of good will. Before you start giving to charity, think about what you can do with your routine, your career or your personal life.

I know thats very general, but you can take from it what you want.

Good luck!

Mr Yellow

Good on YOU..

A mate of mine has started teaching oldies hte basics of getting on th interweb thingy. I think its great. a feel good factor about it, so considering in getting into something like that. I can find out more if you require?
Im sure charity shops etc may need some additional assistance in teh run up to Xmas also.

Plenty unemployed out there & many couldnt be ars*d giving back something now that they have so much time to kill (just those who are unemployed & stay in bed all day obv)...the world needs to change & good people like you

ravima

Check out www.kiva.org

You can lend money interest free to others.

also ,what about some form of advocacy in writing to highlight peoples problems, either here or abroad.

iguana

You could do some volunteer work. If you like books you could help out in an Oxfam Books or the book dept of another charity shop. Or if you have a reasonable idea about fashion you could help out with pricing clothes. A lot of charity shops really appreciate getting younger volunteers who have up to date knowledge on the things they sell.

thefeatheredcat

Fair play to you OP.

Do it on an everyday basis as you go about your day to start with like if someone drops something pick it up for them, someone needs a hand with something then lend the hand. In practising random acts of kindness on an on-going subconscious manner, you'll feel better.

Be careful about giving too much....some people will happily and without hesitation capitalise on it. If you're a good advice giver, you can always offer something here anyway.

If you want to do something a little more, be there for your friends and family if they need someone to talk to or help in some way. Be careful of letting other people's issues overburden you or you being used as a counsellor.

More than that, you can always offer your services with volunteer work, I'm sure people like Rape Crisis and Samaritans would appreciate volunteers. If you're working, maybe you could discuss offering confidential advice as part of your role to anyone that needs it.

e04bf099

thefeatheredcat wrote: »

Fair play to you OP.

Do it on an everyday basis as you go about your day to start with like if someone drops something pick it up for them, someone needs a hand with something then lend the hand. In practising random acts of kindness on an on-going subconscious manner, you'll feel better.

Be careful about giving too much....some people will happily and without hesitation capitalise on it. If you're a good advice giver, you can always offer something here anyway.

If you want to do something a little more, be there for your friends and family if they need someone to talk to or help in some way. Be careful of letting other people's issues overburden you or you being used as a counsellor.

More than that, you can always offer your services with volunteer work, I'm sure people like Rape Crisis and Samaritans would appreciate volunteers. If you're working, maybe you could discuss offering confidential advice as part of your role to anyone that needs it.

I agree totally. It is the little things that count.

LegacyUser

What about giving blood? It's really easy to do and can really help someone. I always feel great after it!