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LegacyUser · 2009-11-07 20:32:52

I don't know what's going on with me at the moment, I'm happily loved and shacked up with my partner of 3 years but lately have been absolutely crippled by insecurities.. I don't know why or where they came from but am destroying myself with them and I want them to stop.. We've had a rough few months, well not between us…

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I don't know what's going on with me at the moment, I'm happily loved and shacked up with my partner of 3 years but lately have been absolutely crippled by insecurities.. I don't know why or where they came from but am destroying myself with them and I want them to stop.. We've had a rough few months, well not between us but an awful lot of stresses outside of the relationship, he knows that I've been feeling a little down lately but doesn't know the extent of it, I'm afraid the more I tell him the more he'll back off so I'm trying to deal with it myself. To be honest he's not great when I'm down, not mean but just doesn't seem to know how to handle it so backs off a little, which makes me feel worse, so it's a viscioius circle.. I feel that I'm more clingy and just not the girl he fell in love with anymore and I don't know how to get her back, for both our sakes. I know there's nothing more unattractive than an insecure wreck and I'm really trying to get head together but I don't know how. I've gained a few pound lately, but nothing major, and to be honest my weight always jumps up and down by a half stone or so and it's never affected me like this before. I'm just looking for advice or tips on how to feel better about myself again!

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