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Highway To Breakup

  • 06-11-2009 12:19am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I think I am on the long road to a breakup.

    In an early twenties relationship, had a few "problems" over the relationship.Lack of contact and a practically non existent sex life would be the one's that stick out. A few other niggles as well.

    Recently I found out I was lied to for a period of three months for various reasons id prefer not to go into. Pretty angry about this, but decided to try and move on.

    The reason I find myself contemplating break up, again, is because every disappointment in the relationship I can't help but resent my partner for the part they played.Not everything is their fault, but I just can't help it. I feel disappointed and resentment half the time.

    The other half of the time, I dismiss it all as irrational. I do lovr her, I know that, even when I am slowly stewing with anger.

    We have talked it all through, and apparently trying to fix any problems in the relationship...but for example this weekend we are due to go out...I do not have much of an inkling for this and might just head off with the lads...

    ...after all...why should I bend over all the time for a relationship..?!

    Is this the same in most relationships after a certain period of time?


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  • #2
    finbarrk
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,494 ✭✭✭finbarrk


    Is this the same in most relationships after a certain period of time?[/QUOTE]

    It is when there isn't much love there.


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