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  • 05-11-2009 11:41pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    ive been with my bf for two years, we have had up and downs like every couple. There was an incident a year back with infidelity on his part not mine which he partly organised through facebook, we broke up but got through it.
    I know people are gonna kill me but i know his facebook password and every now and again i check it, for my own sanity.
    Today there was a conversation with a girl on it that he must have forgotten to close on the fb chat. Basically telling her he would cum for her and she has him to send her a picture of his d*ck to cheer her up and he said you first.......WTF????! i asked him who this girl was before and he said he knew her from work which i now know was complete boll*x.

    Problem is how the hell do i confront this?????


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  • #2
    Wagon
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,119 ✭✭✭Wagon


    Tell him you logged into his facebook account and found the conversation. He'll be a dickhead and accuse you of mistrust because you logged into his computer but its pretty obvious to see why! You had a hunch that he was cheating on you, and you acted on it. it was a good thing you did. and he may not have actually cheated on you yet but the intent is very much there. you cant trust someone like that.

    sorry to hear this has happened, but there's good men out there. the only way to find one is to stop wasting time with arseholes like him. good luck :)


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    That is disgraceful.. is this guy your boyfriend at the moment...?????

    My experience in this situation is that if you have a normal and loving relationship with your boyfriend you shouldn't need to check up on him by using his passwords etc...

    By posting what you have I would think you know there is no way that your relationship is loving and respectful so the sooner out of it the better...

    Hope this is helpful..


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