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Totally confused, ridiculously mixed signals

  • 05-11-2009 3:35am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    Hey guys,

    Sorry to bore you with a really fimiliar situation, but I'd really appreciate some advise :)

    Basically, I've scored with a friend/friend of a friend, a few times recently, all in club situations. We talk about everything outside of that, and she is always the one who initiates the conversation. We've gotten fairly close in the last couple of weeks, except there's one problem... When we're in a sober, non-club situation, she acts like a bictch to me!

    Of course, the bitchiness is always in good humour and whenever it's overly harsh, she says sorry. The situation came to a head tonight when we were in a club and she just upped and left coz she was so bored. She said it wasn't my fault but it only could have been IMO. She came back to the club eventually but we still didn't score. My question is, is she genuinly interested in me or was it just a random maul on a night out? I know she is interested but I can never tell when she is up for anything. Tbh, I could be completely over-sensitive and over-reacting but I really don't know what to do! Should I ignore her next time and play it cool, or go for another approach? Any advise is greatly appreciated :)


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  • #2
    fairycakes
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 201 ✭✭fairycakes


    Hi Leinster Lad

    Sorry to say but this girl is playing mind games with you, if someone likes you they don't treat you nice one moment and then bitchy the next!! My advice is to forget her and go out and score with someone much more worthy of your good self! :)

    Good luck!


  • #3
    martdalto
    Closed Accounts Posts: 211 ✭✭martdalto


    Hiya OP, sorry to say, but I don't think her signals are that mixed.

    She's basically letting you know, if she has nothing better going on, and is in the mood, then she'll score you. If there's anything "better" on offer, then she wants nothing to do with you.

    I'd cut my losses and move on. She knows you're sitting around waiting and wondering whether something will happen or not. And that she can have you if/when she wants. Stop waiting for her, and she might cop on... if not, are you really missing out on much?


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