size matters

LegacyUser

last night in the middle of making love i asked my oh was i well endowed and she said average. i know it was a silly question but it was in the throes of passion. now i feel sort of hurt. i am 6 inches erect. should i be embarrassed by this

Gyalist

colm foley wrote: »

last night in the middle of making love i asked my oh was i well endowed and she said average. i know it was a silly question but it was in the throes of passion. now i feel sort of hurt. i am 6 inches erect. should i be embarrassed by this

Yes. Your brain is your largest sex organ and you clearly weren't using yours.

opinion guy

You're fine.
IF memoery serves 5.5inches is average - there's a wikipedia page on it somewhere.

You can tell your girlfriend however that her sex talk sucks unbelieveably.....

opinion guy

Everything you ever wanted to konw about size and then some:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Penis_size#Length

shellyboo

Asking your gf if you have a big dick is like her asking you if she looks fat - a really stupid and needy question that you should always lie in response to.

You both fail.

Darthhoob

kinda putting her on the spot "in the throws of passion". you seem to have a problem with your size and seemed to want confirmation that you were right to be worried about it....6inches is a perfectly fine size...you want her to lie and say it's HUGE?? that's a whole other PI

shellyboo

Darthhoob wrote: »

kinda putting her on the spot "in the throws of passion". you seem to have a problem with your size and seemed to want confirmation that you were right to be worried about it....6inches is a perfectly fine size...you want her to lie and say it's HUGE?? that's a whole other PI

To be fair, in the throes of passion, you'd want to be limiting your vocabulary to "big", "hard", and "throbbing". "Average" shouldn't be making an appearance in dirty talk of any sort. "Ooh, baby, that feels so... average." Not hot.

However, the OP shouldn't have asked if he couldn't handle an honest answer!

opinion guy

Darthhoob wrote: »

kinda putting her on the spot "in the throws of passion". you seem to have a problem with your size and seemed to want confirmation that you were right to be worried about it....6inches is a perfectly fine size...you want her to lie and say it's HUGE?? that's a whole other PI

To be honest no she shoudl lie and say its huge. My comment about sex talk above was meant to be both humerous and serious at the same time. This is bascially sex talk whether they know it or not. your supposed to big up (pun intended) your partner with this kind of thing. Imagine she had asked - "am i tight enough for you". he says "eh kinda average". NOT what you want to hear right ? Because its equivalent to saying - "meh I've had bigger" or "meh I've had tighter". you want to hear - you are the biggest/best/tighttest/whatever. its part of the whole thing of making each other feel amazing. no ?

But as you say - that is a different thread really....

Eve_Dublin

shellyboo wrote: »

Asking your gf if you have a big dick is like her asking you if she looks fat - a really stupid and needy question that you should always lie in response to.

You both fail.

In fairness I´ve quite a few gentlemen ask me if they´re big during sex....it´s sexy talk and it turns some men on and you play along regardless of their size, even if it might seem a bit cheesy. I don´t think he was looking for a subjective opinion on the size of his penis like he would on an average day...I think he wanted to hear one response and one response only...."You´re massive...the biggest I´ve ever had in my life".

OP perhaps your girlfriend is not used to this kind of conversation during sex and came out with the only response she could think of without not being herself. I wouldn´t take it to heart...I´m sure she was enjoying herself. It´s not the size (for what it´s worth,your bigger than average), it´s what you do with it. Fact.

LegacyUser

yes it was a real turn off. she said she had had one that was 10 inches, and then explained it was too big to have inside here. mad or what

i55ed5

The size of the boat dont matter, 'long as you can make it float

RossFixxxed

Every woman should tell a man that it is massive, mastadonic, it is like the hindenberg, it's gargantuan, colossal, nearly unmanagable, it is the greatest, most epic colossus of rhodes thing in the world. POEMS, EPIC METAL SONGS will be written about it.

That's my 0.02 anyway.

There's not much sexy about 'oh yeah, that's ooo adequate, that might please me to an acceptable level, put it in I might feel it a bit baby, give me the efficient moderate sex, oh yeah, I'm slightly turned on.'

Or maybe there is!¬


EDIT: OP your question, No you certainly should not be embarrassed although after such a stupid comment I probably would be. But you are grand there to be honest.