asked girl out

LegacyUser

Met a girl last night, only chatted to her for a little bit but asked her would she like to go for a drink sometime and she said yes. I got her number. Should I text her now or wait? write something general or arrange to meet up for date???

scarymoon1

id say wait a few days - texting the day after would seem a bit desperate. And then say something general like how was your night etc?????

opinion guy

yeah monday or tuesday and keep it light and breezy.

kjl

I would say text now, then if she doesn't txt back in the first few minutes, then txt again, and again, then ring, if you get a voice-mail leave an awkward message.

Just kidding, I would say give her a call on tuesday, I hate people who just text.

zxcvbnm1

are people for real saying wait until tuesday and all that?

OP - what you do is this - you text her now - and not with some general chat.

Say something like - "Hey - good to meet you last night. Would you like to meet up for a drink during the week"
If she is interested she will say yes - if not she will say no.
Waiting until tuesday to text is not goinmg to give you any hige advantage.

Waiting until tuesday and stuff is so obviously contrived and therefor elooks silly in my book.

opinion guy

zxcvbnm1 wrote: »

are people for real saying wait until tuesday and all that?

OP - what you do is this - you text her now - and not with some general chat.

Say something like - "Hey - good to meet you last night. Would you like to meet up for a drink during the week"
If she is interested she will say yes - if not she will say no.
Waiting until tuesday to text is not goinmg to give you any hige advantage.

Waiting until tuesday and stuff is so obviously contrived and therefor elooks silly in my book.

well the reason i said wait till monday or tuesday is because today is sunday. hangover day. wait till hangovers are clear because some people don't like dealing with things they may have to think about when hungover. if i met a girl last night and got a text from her today hungover i'd be quite slow to reply IF i reply. if i got one tomorrow i'd be happy about it

e04bf099

zxcvbnm1 wrote: »

are people for real saying wait until tuesday and all that?

OP - what you do is this - you text her now - and not with some general chat.

Say something like - "Hey - good to meet you last night. Would you like to meet up for a drink during the week"
If she is interested she will say yes - if not she will say no.
Waiting until tuesday to text is not goinmg to give you any hige advantage.

Waiting until tuesday and stuff is so obviously contrived and therefor elooks silly in my book.

Damn straight!

LegacyUser

well i text her tonight and we arranged to meet up next weekend for a drink. She seems like a nice girl so hopefully it will go well. Just have to get over first date nerves now and hope that it will go ok. any advice? bit nervous bout this

Libertewhite

Couldn't agree more really. Im one to text or ring the next day, evening perhaps. And it hasn't let me down yet!

Good luck dude:cool:

GigaByte

hoelwig wrote: »

well i text her tonight and we arranged to meet up next weekend for a drink. She seems like a nice girl so hopefully it will go well. Just have to get over first date nerves now and hope that it will go ok. any advice? bit nervous bout this

Good for you! Hope things go well, who knows if you listened to the "others" who said to wait she could have met some one else by then!!! :eek:

Also let this be a lesson to the older posters, todays younger generation do communicate by text message even if you don't.

scarymoon1

Gee that was quick work - ye must both like each other alot congrats.

opinion guy

Cool - congrats! Enjoy!

carlychick

hey, good 4 u texting soon and not playing games....and fair deuce to you for having the courage to ask for her number and asking her out, that is brave. enjoy your date. try not to be too nervous....i know it is difficult. you never know this girl might be the one for you! or maybe you will just have a nice evening and not meet again.
i recently was introduced to a guy 6 months ago...met his friend at a conference, needed a few contacts for work and contacted this 'guy' and had a business meeting. i was so chuffed and it was so nice at the end of the meeting he asked me out on a date! i think in general if the girl is decent she will be happy and delighted to be asked out on a date. anyways yes i know the 1st date nerves...... but have had 3 dates with this guy and it was so funny as met him on friday night, had dinner went to a bar was sitting underneath a staircase and somebody got sick and it all came down on top of us my new top was destroyed !!! so a word of advice - keep away from staircases!!!!!!& well done you for plucking up the courage to ask this girl out and i hope it all goes well