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Why does this keep happening??

  • 31-10-2009 5:57pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I have a serious problem when it comes to relationships. I have no problem meeting guys and going on dates, but when it gets to about the 2 month mark, it just fizzles. I'd understand if this just happened a couple of times, but it happens every single time and I'm beginning to think that I'll never be able to have a proper relationship. I have never gone out with anyone longer than 3 months - it's ridiculous as I'm nearly 27.

    I have great relationships with friends and family but why does it never work out with guys? I've analysed my behaviour so many times and I can't figure out where I am going wrong. As far as I'm concerned I don't come across clingy etc, I play it reasonably cool while also trying to meet a guy halfway in terms of texting, arranging to meet up etc. What the hell am I doing wrong??


Comments

  • #2
    SarahSassy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,145 ✭✭✭SarahSassy


    Not trying to be a smart ass here but have you asked any of them. Did you keep up contact with any of them, if so, ask why it fizzled out. It wont when its the right person - trust me :)


  • #3
    e04bf099
    Closed Accounts Posts: 225 ✭✭e04bf099


    Not really anything I can say except to say that you're not alone. Plenty of people I know are in the same situation. Its tough, I know, but you are expecting too much. You have no problem meeting guys and going on a few dates, so why worry. Sometimes you just get a string of low scores and then one day, out of the blue, you get a bulls-eye. Unlike darts, you only need one good shot. At least you're hittin' the board. Some of us can't even manage that:(


  • #4
    magneticimpulse
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,952 ✭✭✭magneticimpulse


    yeah its like me (re my post) and im 29 next month. whats the secret?? we need a follow up to bridget jones. shes my idle...im so like her its shameful ;) even the skiing incident was spot on


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