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  • 26-10-2009 8:55pm
    #1
    Johnny Weasel
    Closed Accounts Posts: 78 ✭✭


    Hi. I have been seeing my current partner for three weeks. We are ready to move on to the next step, ie full on intercourse. The problem is I have some embarrassing blackheads around my anal area. We are really keen to take our relationship to that next stage but I'm afraid if he sees this unsightly mess he will be turned off forever. I like him quite a lot and would be devestated if this cost us to chance of something really good. Should I just explain to him the problem? I'd hate to be having intercourse, only for one of the spots to burst midway through. I don't think I could live with the embarrassment.


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  • #2
    cafecolour
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,328 ✭✭✭cafecolour


    Honestly, the anus is rarely the most perfect of parts, so I wouldn't worry too much about it. I'm not sure he'd really notice. As to them popping mid-act, well if you're having anal sex, it should involve a condom and copious amounts of lube, so that shouldn't be noticeable either.

    If you've shaved, they're likely ingrown hairs. You can make some off hand comment like "I'm excited for it but I may be a bit sensitive - I've shaved for the occasion but got a bit of razor burn!"

    If you're really uptight about it, you could go to a dermatologist and ask him to lance them for you.


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