Hate girl but want her at the same time

franktennis

Lately i was kicked out of a house by the owner. Basically i was not keeping up to her hygiene standards. I actually cant stand her. When she kicked me out there was no contact but we were eyeing each other up in a nightclub on sat night. We kept looking at each other, no smile or anything. I was looking too. I want her alot for some weird reason but she annoys the hell out of me. Am i nuts??? What do i do. I feel she is interested in me too for some reason.

minidazzler

I doubt she wants you mate. If she won't let you live in her house because of your hygiene, I doubt she wants you inside her.

liah

Elaborate on the conflict of hygiene standards..?

To be totally honest if it were me I'd just forget about it. If you've already lived together as mates and it didn't work out, especially considering she actually kicked you out, I can't see it working in any sort of relationship.

Were you eyeing each other up without saying anything to each other? The no expression thing is a bit odd, and she was probably feeling a bit strange that you didn't speak to her, maybe she thought you were giving her the eye out of spite for kicking you out or something.

Either way it doesn't look good.

franktennis

all valid points but when i left she text me saying she was sorry it did not work out and wished me the best. We did not fight or anything but she was impossible to live with. I mean she commented on everything i did and was very annoying. I was attracted to her though and clearly still am. Such a mess.

Darthhoob

minidazzler wrote: »

I doubt she wants you mate. If she won't let you live in her house because of your hygiene, I doubt she wants you inside her.

reminds me of that episode of futurama "dirty boy!!! dirty dirty boy!!!"

sorry

i doubt she wants you mate, she was probably just being polite in the text and was looking at you with awkwardness.

VinnyTGM

If kicking you out of her house is her way of telling you she want's you, I'd hate to see what she is like when you p1ss her off.

Overheal

By all means give it a crack. Im curious to see what'll happen. If you think they were "I want you" eyes and not "I want you to die" eyes, then you may as well take the chance. One life to live and all that.

liah

Actually, are you sure it's not just a case of wanting what you can't have?

Sleepy

Had a similar experience many moons ago (though nothing to do with my hygiene I hasten to add) with a girl who ran in my social circles that I never got on with. We were attracted to,but couldn't stand, each other at the same time. It only happened a handful of times but the sex was absolutely electric. Worth having a shot imho.

thee glitz

franktennis wrote: »

she kicked me out

I wouldn't be too hopeful. Just move on.

mood

minidazzler wrote: »

I doubt she wants you mate. If she won't let you live in her house because of your hygiene, I doubt she wants you inside her.

Very bluntly put but I have to agree.

I assume you are addressing those hygiene issue!

kjl

theres a thin line between love and hate

mood

kjl wrote: »

theres a thin line between love and hate

Ah come on - she is hardly likely to want to get up close and personal if she questions his hygiene standards. The thought probably makes her feel sick.

Darthhoob

to be fair he didn't say personal hygiene, he could just be a messy sod.

Anti

Not really fair to judge the op after about 6 lines of text.

But as someone above said, what have you got to loose? Give it a shot, if she turns you down right away you know its was just mixed signals.

mood

I don't think anyone is judging the OP. But if his and her standards of hygiene are very different I don't think anything could come of it. The girl didn't even want him living in her house because of this so how could she want to get intimate?

More information from the OP might help.

maryjmul

underneath she is a nice girl who just wants to get on with people ,dont read to much into this as she is just being nice and not flirting with you ,u are messy and women hate that she geniunely wants you to get on