Lots of Foreplay

LegacyUser

I just have a quick question about guys and foreplay.

I've been seeing a guy and i'm mad about him and he seems into me but i'm just wondering about foreplay. he really spends ages pleasuring me (kissing me all over and esp oral) and i think this is a great sign cos if he didnt care he'd be straight into it wouldn't he? he seems to really want me to enjoy myself and even asks me afterwards if i enjoyed myself. the other night the whole thing was about 2 hours (is that long?)

i don't want to ask him how he feels about me (its too soon i think) but i'm looking
for signs that hes really into me and i'm hoping this is one of them.

magneticimpulse

i dont really see the relationship issue here. some guys like foreplay and some dont. and some girls like foreplay and some dont. it depends what people are into. and really what your stating is that you both enjoy it. so i dont see the issue??

as for if this is a sign he likes you, well i would never just base a relationship on sex. of course chemistry is what makes one, but its all about quality time with the person too. i mean there can be times when you have a lot of sex and especially at the beginning, but there has to be more then that for a relationship to last longer.

jellyboy

Hi op....
reads like you have found sombody who is taking your needs to his heart....

Welcome to the trapdoor of life....:D

LegacyUser

magnetic impulse, i know there is more to a relationship than sex but i was just curious about this in particular. we do have great chemistry and enjoy quality time together.

jellyboy, what do you mean when you say trapdoor of life??!! sorry i don't understand.

krudler

Sounds like you have what a lot of women would like, everyones different with foreplay, sometimes me and the OH will spend ages at it and less time at the actual sex, sometimes other way round, depends on how horny you are and what time you have really

GigaByte

I think its a very good sign that he's into you. If he wasn't there'd be no way he'd be spending 2 hours having foreplay! Enjoy!

How many boyfriends have you had?

minidazzler

I'd say it is a good sign he's into you, or he just likes performing oral. I know I do, if he is anything like me then it could be that he just loves going down.

He could be someone who derives pleasure from their partners pleasure. Similarily to me again.

But if he is with you he is probably into you anyway. especially if spending 2 hours going down.

kjl

I'm a bloke, and I love going down on girls. I can't get enough. For me the act of giving pleasure is more pleasurable then receiving it.

While true, myself and the OP's OH are in a minority, we do exist.

Although, I only enjoy it when Im with someone I like, if I didn't like them I wouldn't bother.

DigiGal

kjl wrote: »

I'm a bloke, and I love going down on girls. I can't get enough. For me the act of giving pleasure is more pleasurable then receiving it.

While true, myself and the OP's OH are in a minority, we do exist.

Although, I only enjoy it when Im with someone I like, if I didn't like them I wouldn't bother.

Well hello there.....;)




*sorry couldn't resist*
On to constructive reply....OP sounds like you've gotten lucky there, enjoy it but don't come on too strong. He is obv in to you in some way or he wouldn't be your bf. Just take your time enjoy and be safe.

LegacyUser

Foreplay is NO indication of how much he likes you! It's just an indication of how much he likes oral sex! Simple as!
Some men love it and enjoy doing it for hours. Others don't (as a female I think these others are pathetic but that's beside the point ;-) )
So don't be reading anything into it. He enjoys giving oral pleasure. End of.

LegacyUser

GigaByte, this guy is my third bf.

We spend the two hours doing everything, don't think i could stand two hours of just oral!!!!

Anyway he doesn't just do oral, he explores my whole body so all kinds of foreplay.
All areas are covered basically!

Thanks for the replies x

minidazzler

foreplay wrote: »

GigaByte, this guy is my third bf.

We spend the two hours doing everything, don't think i could stand two hours of just oral!!!!

Anyway he doesn't just do oral, he explores my whole body so all kinds of foreplay.
All areas are covered basically!

Thanks for the replies x

To be honest he sounds like me, infatuated by the female body. Sounds like a keeper methinks!!!!

krudler

minidazzler wrote: »

I'd say it is a good sign he's into you, or he just likes performing oral. I know I do, if he is anything like me then it could be that he just loves going down.

He could be someone who derives pleasure from their partners pleasure. Similarily to me again.

But if he is with you he is probably into you anyway. especially if spending 2 hours going down.

high five for us men who enjoy going down on girls for ages, we're in short supply and high demand:D

OP 2 hrs is plenty of quality sexy time, maybe not every time though as sometimes its fun to just have a quick thing, but for those great nights then 2 hrs is fine